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amen!

Washing with conditioner (no poo-ing) is very logical and just as beneficial as washing with shampoo. I believe that the bottom line is finding products that are healthy and have natural ingredients without harsh chemicals and artificial ingredients whether one uses shampoo or not. My question is for people who do use shampoo and deep condition their hair in the same day: do you jump in the shower - shampoo - rinse out - deep condition - jump out the shower and then jump in the shower to rinse out again?! I, myself found this to be quite tedious (whether I washed in the shower or sink) So, I just eliminate the unneccessity of shampooing because deep conditioning (without shampoo) removes the build-up while cutting corners and saving time to get the job done - which is what we want overall - to get our hair and scalp cleansed.
Diane
There is to be no crown without first a cross**Lk9:23
-- "Tamara Prosper" <tgprosper@...

Hello Ladies. I keep hearing/reading about people washing their hair without shampoo or using conditioner to wash their hair. How does that work? Isn't that like showering without soap or using lotion to wash your skin? Does it work? Does it remove build-up? I'm very curious about this. I've conditioned my hair without washing it before. I did that when I had a relaxer sometimes, especially after swimming, but it was just to hold me over until I could wash it. Has anyone tried it and disliked it? All helpful ideas/responses are welcome and greatly appreciated.

Thanks

THAT IS SOOO TRUE. I never even though of being defeated before you even get in the door. Excellent point.
Why do we wear gloves to protect our hands from a chemical that touches our scalp? [INLINE]

Hello All,

I am wondering if anyone knows of any places in the DC Metro Area that will teach me how to do Natural Hair?

Any suggestions will be greatly appreciated.

Peace & Blessings,
Pam

I know many of you are suffering the bitter cold winters but I am in the south
west and
already thinking about going swimming.
I have not really been swimming in chlorinated pools in years and and looking
forward to it
this summer since I am no longer held captive by my relaxed hair any more. Can I
get some
advice on maintaining healthy hair in the summer pool season?
Thanks,
Sonia

Hey Maryee--

I meant to tell you how much I enjoy your site. I read the stories on the site often--they keep me inspired.

Tobi
"Mary E. E." <meejae@...

Cool story! I'm glad you took your hat off. Visuals teach well!
Thanks for sharing.
Maryee
http://www.lovemylocks.blogspot.com
quiet until they prepared to get off the train about three or four
stops later. I glanced up at the couple as they passed in front of
where I was sitting, and the girlfriend says in a small voice, "I
like your locs".
wanted it known that I wasn't covering my hair because it looked bad
(or was nappy), but because it is Chicago in January! (Although
it's a bit warmer than it normally is).

Thanks Tobi,
I like to lurk in most of the groups and when I find good and interestng
stories, I try and
comment on em'. I have to go back and read some of my posts in my blog to keep
me
inspired as well. Thank you kindly for your positive feedback. Keep sharing
you stories as
well.
Maryee

Tamara, yes, depending upon where you live makes a difference in acceptance of natural hair. My hair style is more accepted by East Coast peeps than the Midwest peeps (where I live). My brother says it would be kool to sport natural in California, where anything goes. He says men are wearing culottes, now how is my natural hair going to be a problem there?. The Midwest is behind in acceptance of natural black beauty and urban clothin, and black people just being free. We ain't free. My Southern Belle Louisiana mama made a comment last week that no one is going to hire me with my hair natural the reason I haven't been hired thus far, and I said well if they don't then I ain't suppose to work for them. I had two fantastic interviews last week and I will keep yall abreast of whether I get one of those positions. If I don't then it wasn't for me. My sistah stylist friend told me sistahs are wearing wigs and brothas are cutting their hair for interviews with white
corporate America. Ha! I know we need $$ to pay the bills and eat, but don't give up your power because you go into "their" world already defeated. Is it better to be hired and denounce who you are for the sake of getting and keeping a job, to later get fired for some other freakinnnn reason "they" can whip up. I sported an afro on a job interview and got the job the next day. I retained my various natural styles up until I left and still sportin them. Whoever hires me will know I am free...It starts in the spirit. I ain't my hair.

Holla.

Cool story! I'm glad you took your hat off. Visuals teach well!
Thanks for sharing.
Maryee
http://www.lovemylocks.blogspot.com
quiet until they prepared to get off the train about three or four
stops later. I glanced up at the couple as they passed in front of
where I was sitting, and the girlfriend says in a small voice, "I
like your locs".
wanted it known that I wasn't covering my hair because it looked bad
(or was nappy), but because it is Chicago in January! (Although
it's a bit warmer than it normally is).

Does anyone know of any trusted and cool places to have their locks tended
to-mainly twisted and a place that have an array of styles??

Hi Everybody--

Thanks everyone so much for your support. I was really disturbed about that girl's comment on the train and I wasn't sure how to handle it--but I did want her to know I didn't have anything to hide. (By the way, her hair was 'fried and dyed').

I think her comment really affected me because it brought back memories of high school, when all my friends were allowed to press and relax their hair, and they really gave me grief about my own hair being "nappy"...How I envied them! Too bad it took me years to gain the confidence to go natural. I'm so glad that I have the support of everyone in this forum.

And Froy--I LOVED your story--I'm sure you didn't look crazy--you looked proud to be you!

Tobi
Froy Reeder <froyreeder@...

HI Toby,

I think what you did warrants a smile on the faces of all natural wearing people in the city.. I too am from Chicago now living in the north suburbs. I had the EXACT experience when i was living in the city. And yes,, I was also on the train(red-line)... i had on a very big head wrap at the time, it was summer and my hair was done nicely under the wrap.. A young girl maybe late teens said a friend of hers she was with that " That chick must think she Erykah Badu or something" Her friend said in reply " I bet her S**t all f****d up under that big ass scarf.... Me being aware that these were obvious young girls decided to let that one pass until they started doing tribal like dances on the train... As ignorant as they looked it was a sad sight... I took my wrap off nice and slowly and prepared to get off the train while it was raining bad.... When i took off my wrap and they saw my long locs very maintained and healthy........they shut up real quick and just looked at
each other.... once i got off and up the escalator i noticed that they were on the same escalator. while they scrambled to put their jackets over their heads, I walked out of the bus station proudly while it was raining and smiled to myself...I know I must have looked crazy to a lot of people but i didn't care... just wanted to share that with you.
Tobi-Velicia Johnson <tvelicia@...

Hi Everyone-

I live near Chicago, and had to take the CTA train today. Sitting behind me was a couple whom I tried really hard to ignore, since they were having this detailed conversation about how the girlfriend was pregnant, and had lied to her doctor about drinking. Then they proceeded to start talking about people who were riding the train.

I heard the guy say something like, "Look at this person in front of us. I wonder what's under her hat?" (I wear a "rasta-style" winter cap with my hair stuffed inside it--it's a small one, so it looks like I have on a big beret). The girlfriend says, "It's a head full of naps--people who need a touch-up have to cover their *$@# up!"

I slowly pulled off my hat, and they were speechless! They were quiet until they prepared to get off the train about three or four stops later. I glanced up at the couple as they passed in front of where I was sitting, and the girlfriend says in a small voice, "I like your locs".

Not that I had anything to prove to the couple, but I really wanted it known that I wasn't covering my hair because it looked bad (or was nappy), but because it is Chicago in January! (Although it's a bit warmer than it normally is).

I just wanted to share this story.

Tobi

Hello Group,

I was wondering if any future issues of the magazine for the group will feature more male loc styles? I am a male with loc and style options are SOOOO small ! Also, if there are any males in the group, plz share your style tips/options.

-Maestro

View message header detail Sherrie,

Thanks for reading about my hair journey and giving me feedback.

I think it's beautiful that your mom still assists with your hair. If my mom lived closer, I would definitely have her assisting with mine because she braids really well. Your mother sitting and rolling it is the first step toward her accepting it.

Both of my parents were surprisingly supportive of me cutting my hair. My mom actually cut the relaxer out of her own hair a month after I cut mine. I went to visit them in California this Christmas and they liked my hair even better in person. My aunt however reacted by asking how I could cut my beautiful hair. It wasn't exactly a negative comment, but it wasn't positive either. I wanted so much to say that I didn't cut beautiful hair, I cut processed hair, I am just now growing beautiful hair.

Well, thanks again for your feedback. I wish you well on your natural journey!

-- D2M

THAS WHAT I'M TALKIN ABOUT SHUT THEM IGNORANT HATERS UP [INLINE]

That story brings a smile to my face [INLINE]
Why do we wear gloves to protect our hands from a chemical that touches our scalp? [INLINE]

Hi Everyone-

I live near Chicago, and had to take the CTA train today. Sitting behind me was a couple whom I tried really hard to ignore, since they were having this detailed conversation about how the girlfriend was pregnant, and had lied to her doctor about drinking. Then they proceeded to start talking about people who were riding the train.

I heard the guy say something like, "Look at this person in front of us. I wonder what's under her hat?" (I wear a "rasta-style" winter cap with my hair stuffed inside it--it's a small one, so it looks like I have on a big beret). The girlfriend says, "It's a head full of naps--people who need a touch-up have to cover their *$@# up!"

I slowly pulled off my hat, and they were speechless! They were quiet until they prepared to get off the train about three or four stops later. I glanced up at the couple as they passed in front of where I was sitting, and the girlfriend says in a small voice, "I like your locs".

Not that I had anything to prove to the couple, but I really wanted it known that I wasn't covering my hair because it looked bad (or was nappy), but because it is Chicago in January! (Although it's a bit warmer than it normally is).

I just wanted to share this story.

Tobi

Diego2Memphis, thanks for sharing your awesome journey. Ford Motor Company relocated my hair stylist brother to Memphis, Tennessee from Kansas City, Missouri. He has since relocated for another promotion to Ranchamongo (sp?), California. It will be interesting to see what will happen in light of all the media surrounding Ford Company but we have faith. Your hair journey was quite enlightening and more encouraging for me to read. My mother who is a Southern Belle from Louisiana is still having issues, but they are hers and not mine. She seemed delighted to roll my twists with foam rollers last week so I guess a little southern tradition added to my natural twists will help her somehow begin to accept. My dad just looked on in amazement while she was rolling my hair and I guess wonderin what the heck is she doin to her hair. I ain't ashamed to say that I am a nappy and happy 43 year old sistah--and my mama still assists every now and then with my hair, and I ain't co
dependent.

"If not this, then something better."

I no Poo (shampooing with conditioner). But I think the key is to use a light conditioner. I have fine hair and I've never had buildup. Suave naturals conditioners seem to help alot I know other people use different ones that work for them. I didn't know about all the no poo concoctions people made until Nappturallity.com LOL I use a shampoo bar once a month regardless. And I heard you shouldn't use the protein conditiners for the no poo because it could make your hair hard from all the protien buildup. and alot of conditioners have a slight detergent ingredient in them that actually can lightly clean your hair. I think you should try it, I did it too while my hair was relaxed, and as I think about it it makes alot more sense for natural hair , but lots of women don't like it for thier hair (because they say it doesn't feel right for them). So I guess it's just best to try it on your tresses [INLINE] I use it like normal shampoo then shea butter my hair as usual.
Why do we wear gloves to protect our hands from a chemical that touches our scalp? [INLINE]

I love the golden color! My locs are gold on the ends--I don't quite have the confidence to color them completely--that color looks amazing on you!

Tobi
mrs_clever60624 <mrs_clever60624@...

Yep I put some updates in my album. My locs are now 16 months old.
I'm going through a shrinkage stage. But I still love em.
Check out my album.
www.fotki.com/clever
Feel free to leave some comments
Thanks

Hi,

I'll be going to the expo this weekend. I live in the Towson area. I had been natural since May 2005, and I just did the big chop right before the New Year came in. I'm going to see what's new as far a products for me and my daughters hair; as well as new style I can probably maintain myself besides the TWA I have been wearing, which looks FABULOUS. I excited, because this will be my first Natural Hair Care Expo.

Shannon

Peace all,
I haven't been on this thread for a little while, and I hope that you
all are well.
Does anyone plan on attending the Hair Care Expo? I live in
Baltimore, and I know that I'll be going.
Peace

Yep I put some updates in my album. My locs are now 16 months old.
I'm going through a shrinkage stage. But I still love em.
Check out my album.
www.fotki.com/clever
Feel free to leave some comments
Thanks

Hello Ladies. I keep hearing/reading about people washing their hair without shampoo or using conditioner to wash their hair. How does that work? Isn't that like showering without soap or using lotion to wash your skin? Does it work? Does it remove build-up? I'm very curious about this. I've conditioned my hair without washing it before. I did that when I had a relaxer sometimes, especially after swimming, but it was just to hold me over until I could wash it. Has anyone tried it and disliked it? All helpful ideas/responses are welcome and greatly appreciated.

Thanks

Be a blessing to someone and you will be blessed

[INLINE] Tamara Gaskins Prosper

It looks really good on you girl [INLINE] don't it FEEL good to be free? hahaha

What do you use on your hair? It looks very healthy. I wanted to leave a comment but I didn't see where I could.
Why do we wear gloves to protect our hands from a chemical that touches our scalp? [INLINE]

Hi Kim--

You are off to a great start! The TWA looks good on you!

Tobi
"if you want to know, hit me up and i might tell you :)" <shortycocoa@...

Hello everyone! I hope all is well. I finally got all my hair
pictures together...here's the link:
http://public.fotki.com/shortycocoa/
best wishes,
kim

Ladies,
I would love to attend the event this weekend..but unfortunately I don't
have transportation to get there...so for you ladies who do go...enjoy
yourself.
Dee

Hello everyone! I hope all is well. I finally got all my hair
pictures together...here's the link:
http://public.fotki.com/shortycocoa/
best wishes,
kim

Right on right on, NaturallyNatasha. Many thanks to you sistah for posting
about the use of "lye" and "perm." When I was replying re incorrect use of
the other words as relating to our hair the above hair terms did not come
into my thoughts--but I have certainly heard them used incorrectly many
times by our sistahs in our salons and I continue to hear them used
incorrectly. I have a cordial relationship with many of my natural stylist
friends/staff so I feel comfortable in correcting their clients who are
familiar with my presence and my persona, and those who aren't are receptive
when I communicate forthright in a respectful manner. Each individual up to
this day has been very receptive and thanked me for my communication to
them. We must empower our sistahs and brothas to use our hair terms
correctly . He that hath ears to hear..
In sincerity,
"If not this, then something better."

Hey Everyone,

For those who live in DC, MD & VA and surrounding areas:

I was on this website www.headzup-events.com/calendar and found some interesting things to do for the months of January and February.

The first one is the Baltimore Natural Hair Care Expo on January 15, 2006 in Baltimore, MD. for more info please go to www.baltimorenaturalhaircareexpo.com. This will be held at the Palladium Convention Center and the cost is $10.00

The second one is Beautiful Ladies of Class Bazaar at the Marriott Residence Inn on Jan. 28,2006 from 1-6 and this event if Free .

But please go to the web site for more events.

Peace & Blessings,
Pam

Thank you for reminding us--I had a brief stint at a cosmetology school a few years ago and I was taught that, too.

Tobi
NubianQueen <nubianqueen@...

Sistahs, I feel it is my humblest obligation to correct in regards to terms we use relating to our hair. We wash clothes, we shampoo our hair. We dye clothes, we color our hair. My brother has been a hair stylist for over 20 years and he felt it was his duty to teach and correct his sistah clients regarding hair terms so that they could be empowered and tell others. This is just information and not intended to insult anyone.--he that hath ears to hear...

Peace yall,

So True. My instructor would BEAT (not really but he'd make you say it over again lol) us if we'd say wash hair or dye hair. LOL It's hard to remember when you've been using those two words most all of your life....lol But fear makes ya get it right. LOL [INLINE]
Why do we wear gloves to protect our hands from a chemical that touches our scalp? [INLINE]

Peace all,
Today the UpTown Food co-op held the 1st meeting for 2006!
Our mission is to Provide AFFORDABLE ORGANIC PRODUCE, ECO-FRIENDLY PRODUCTS, and HEALTHY EATING EDUCATION for uptown NYC residents.
Help make this happen.
Bring your ideas, your energy, expertise and voice to our next meeting --
Sunday, February 5th
2:30-4:30
@ Bonjour Cafe -- 147th + St. Nicolas Ave.
RSVP- Rawsoul 212-491-5859
Cannot make the meeting -- Stay informed! Join the on-line forum.

Sistahs, I feel it is my humblest obligation to correct in regards to terms we use relating to our hair. We "wash" clothes, we shampoo our hair. We "dye" clothes, we "color" our hair. My brother has been a hair stylist for over 20 years and he felt it was his duty to teach and correct his sistah clients regarding hair terms so that they could be empowered and tell others. This is just information and not intended to insult anyone.--he that hath ears to hear...

Peace yall,

I was told to spray my hair with a water spritz bottle and my coils became fuzzy and came undone. i went to another locticiatin and she told me not to get it wet for at least 6 to 8 weeks. That seemed to work for me as it started to loc a little faster.

Mary

To wash or not to wash is the question?

I have locs/comb coils that will be a week old on Friday. My loctician says not to get them wet for at least a month. Others say that the more you wash the faster they loc. Washing as frequently as 3x a week starting out is a good thing.

Please send me your experiences.

Tamara--

Your hair looks amazing! It's so thick and healthy! The beautiful afro puff is my favorite!

Tobi
Tamara Prosper <tgprosper@...

I finally created a Fotki site. Here are some pictures of different ways I style my here. I'll add new styles soon. Happy New Year!!
http://public.fotki.com/tgprosper/

Be a blessing to someone and you will be blessed

[INLINE] Tamara Gaskins Prosper

Tamara,

keep doing what you do! your hair is beautiful and so are you!

sharon wilson <sharonmrn96@...

Tamara, Your hair is awesome!! How long have you been natural? I regrettably permed my hair in August and am trying to decide to go back natural without cutting my hair. I still continue to read all the messages from everyone, see I just can't let go! [INLINE] Thank you for the inspiration!

Sharon
Tamara Prosper <tgprosper@...

I finally created a Fotki site. Here are some pictures of different ways I style my here. I'll add new styles soon. Happy New Year!!
http://public.fotki.com/tgprosper/

Be a blessing to someone and you will be blessed

[INLINE] Tamara Gaskins Prosper

Thanks Sharon. My last relaxer was August 24, 2001. I made the big cut in February 2002. It was tough for me because my hair was pretty long, about 4 inches below my shoulders. It's been difficult sometimes but I'm glad I did it and stuck with it. Trust me, I came close to relaxing it again several times so I understand where you've been. Sometimes I just don't want to be bothered with it. On those days, I pull it back and wrap a pretty scarf on it. People think I'm very dressy or doing something special on those days. They have no idea that I'm just having a "bad hair day." I'm still experimenting and adjusting to my hair but I'm beginning to enjoy and appreciate it instead of feeling like it's a never-ending chore. Best wishes on your journey, whatever you decide to do.

Tammy

Be a blessing to someone and you will be blessed

[INLINE] Tamara Gaskins Prosper

I can not wait until my hair is that long. Well I guess I can since I have to. LOL

Tamara, Your hair is awesome!! How long have you been natural? I regrettably permed my hair in August and am trying to decide to go back natural without cutting my hair. I still continue to read all the messages from everyone, see I just can't let go! [INLINE] Thank you for the inspiration!

Sharon
Tamara Prosper <tgprosper@...

I finally created a Fotki site. Here are some pictures of different ways I style my here. I'll add new styles soon. Happy New Year!!
http://public.fotki.com/tgprosper/

Be a blessing to someone and you will be blessed

[INLINE] Tamara Gaskins Prosper

O.M.GGGGG. I am LOOOVIN that Puff. I WANT IT. lol I really hope my hair can grow like that it looks so soft & healthy. (*screams in delight [INLINE] ) What oils/butters, shampoo/poo bars do u use on your hair? It's Gorgeous. How long did it take to grow that long? The Twistout is gorgeous too. I am adding you to my favorites list on Fotki [INLINE]
Why do we wear gloves to protect our hands from a chemical that touches our scalp? [INLINE]

I finally created a Fotki site. Here are some pictures of different ways I style my here. I'll add new styles soon. Happy New Year!!

http://public.fotki.com/tgprosper/

Be a blessing to someone and you will be blessed

[INLINE] Tamara Gaskins Prosper

Thank you kindly Shamieka,
I love my Sisterlocks!!!
Blessings to you!
Maryee
SL'd 25 months
http://www.lovemylocks.blogspot.com

any of that could cause your issues, but all of them
together wow! i understand the work problem its not
like we can just not work, well most of us anyway. i
would still advise you to get a medical opinion. i
will be praying for you.

a happy nappy new year 2 u & everyone else!

Maryee, your hair is gorgeous Darling!!

I think you should seek medical attention as your problem really sounds abnormal especially since you have no chemicals in your hair. It could also be nerves or stress.

MALCOLM X SYNDROME HAS NOTHING ON THIS....

OK U ALL

I TOLD U ABOUT MY MALCOLM X SYNDROME AND HOW MY NORMAL PRODUCTS WERE BURNING THE BEEJEEZUS OUT OF ME....

WELL I DID WHAT I WAS TOLD BY EVERYONES RECOMMENDATIONS ..WHICH WERE PRETTY MUCH THE SAME...

THERE WAS ANOTHER RECOMMENDATION....BUT I HAVE NOT BEEN ABLE TO GET THAT FAR BECAUSE....

MY HAIR IS VERY SHORT... 2 START WITH...

NO REMEMBER I HAVENT PROCESSED MY HAIR...

I WAS WONDERING MY HAIR 1. THE STRANDS HAD SPLITTING NOT AT THE ENDS BUT ALONG THE GRAIN OF THE HAIR FOLICLE...

NOW.... MY HAIR IS BREAKING OFF LIKE PEACH FUZZ ALL OVER THE PLACE..... WHAT IN THE WORLD IS GOING ON WITH MY HAIR...

Greetings,

I'm just popping in to answer the survey. Happy New Year!

What's your screen name? Maryee
City/State? Waco, Tx
Loose, loced, or transitioning? Sisterlocked
How long has your hair been like it is? 25 months (11-28-03)
How long is your hair? not sure, maybe 7-8 inches with hair now contracting
What are your 3 favorite products? Sisterlocks shampoo and moisturizer and Tea Tree Oil
What are your 3 favorite styles? Updo, Ponytail and Bantu knots
Do you style your hair at home, or go to a salon? Home
If you go to a salon, which one? N/A
What is/has been your toughest hair struggle, physical or mental? Mental at first, but now I's Free!! Most of my testimony is on my blog: http://www.lovemylocks.blogspot.com

Are you natural for life? Why or why not? I can't afford to be anything but natural, physically, mentally, spiritually, and financially. Until otherwise notified, it will be for life!

Maryee

http://locksblogsphotos.blogspot.com/

Visited Maryee's Place lately?

Sisterlocked 25 months-Check out my journey

One of my sisters, a permie, went there for the first time to get her hair
done, and she noticed that every other client that came through the door
had a natural hairstyle. It turns out that the salon specializes in natural
hair care. She even sold her some natural hair products for her four-year-
old daughter, which made her hair very soft.
She couldn't wait to tell me about it, so I thought I'd share it with you just
in case someone in the area doesn't know about them and is looking for
a salon. More info here:
http://national.citysearch.com/profile/34896403/?brand=smx_spa-nc

I can't get the pictures to come up. Are they on your Web site?

HAPPY HAPPY HAPPY HAPPY HAPPY HAPPY HAPPY HAPPY HAPPY HAPPY HAPPY HAPPY New Year! [INLINE]

Hi Thierry--

Your creation is really beautiful--I love the color!

Tobi
Hi everyone :)

This is my latest cut/color/style creation. I hope you like it!

Stay positive,
Thierry Baptiste
R.I.P. Rosa Parks

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Hi everyone :)

This is my latest cut/color/style creation. I hope you like it!

Stay positive,
Thierry Baptiste
R.I.P. Rosa Parks

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Your friend may want to seek out a Certified Trichologist. Specialist in hair
and scalp, hair loss issues. I know of one named Lisa Akabari. Lisa has has
does complimentary telephone consultations, and your friend can set up a hair
analysis with Lisa at her clinic. Check out her website. www.lisaakabri.com.

do you have video on natural hair care and styling.mints@...

Maybe your having an allergic reaction to one of the products your using.

Hi April, my name is Mia Simone and I'm the owner of Mia Simone's Boutique.
I read your comment from our Naturally You Group. It sounds like the doctors
haven't identified the root cause of your friend's hair falling out problem,
but it appears that you gave her good advice as to one of the possible
reasons why she is experiencing this problem. Stress, genetics, chemicals,
bad hair grooming habits and diet (not getting sufficient daily nutrients,
exercise and water) are often times some of the causes to why people's hair
fall out. Your friend may be experiencing serious stress and have one or
more of the other possible sources (diet, genetics, chemicals etc).
Based on the information you provided I would definitely continue to
encourage your friend to reduce the stress in her life (exercise helps to
reduce stress and also helps the body's circulation which is beneficial for
hair growth). Some years ago I was under severe stress and didn't even
realize it because I had been under it for so long (family problems that
caused me to have to step into roles that I should not have had to and take
responsibillities that were not mine etc....in addition to being the sole
provider for my mother and sister right after graduating from
college...AND...trying to get acclimated to working in corporate America
right after graduating from college and then later learning and suffering
from health issues--fibroid tumors. As you can see this is a lot to deal
with and the only reason why I'm sharing my personal information is to give
you (or your friend ....feel free to copy and paste my response to your
comment to your friend), more insight on how serious stress can be. The
stress that I was under I perceived at that time to be just frustration with
certain things until a close friend told me that due to all the stuff I was
going through, that I was under a lot of stress. I then gave my friend's
comment much consideration and linked my own hair loss to stress. After I
removed and reduced the stress areas from my life I noticed an improvement
in my hair---stopped falling out.
I do not know the source of your friends hair falling out problems but I do
know how various things like stress genetics, chemicals, bad hair grooming
habits and diet (not getting sufficient daily nutrients exercise and water)
are often times some of the causes to why people's hair fall out.
On another note you can tell your friend that I have a product that is 100%
natural that may help to improve her condition and ease some of the negative
symptoms of her hair problem and it is called Aloe Vera Herbal Leave-In
Treatment. You can read the detailed product information and testimonials
about this product on my web site. Also, continue to encourage your friend
to reduce the stress in her life and give her examples of ways she can do
this (example: exercise, dealing with certain personal issues or people,
taking relaxation breaks each week, getting enough sleep, eating a balanced
healthy diet etc). I hope this infromation is helpful to you. My web site
is: http://www.miasb.com
From,
Mia Simone's Boutique
http://www.miasb.com
Accessories by Mia Simone
http://www.miasimone.net

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i recommend the following: stop using everything. stop using every
single product, including shampoo. it is possible to develop an
allergy to something you did not have an allergy to before.
just rinse your hair with water for a couple of days, no shampoo of
any kind. if you are worried about how your hair looks, use a headwrap
or double strand twist it or braid it damp without products (not sure
how long it is).
if you think you may have hard water, rinse you hair with distilled
water - cover all bases. my skin reacts poorly to tap water depending
on where i am.
ONE AT A TIME try products. start with aloe vera. it is an oil free
moisturizer. some people have trouble with oils, which is why i'm
starting there. take a spray bottle, fill with distilled water, and
add some aloe vera juice, which you can get at the natural foods
store. spray on hair and scalp. DO NOT USE ANYTHING ELSE, NOTHING, FOR
ONE WEEK. (sorry to yell, but this is serious!) rinse your hair with
water, it does not need to be washed with shampoo frequently.
if you scalp is still itching like mad, stop the aloe vera, and don't
use anything but water again for a few days. the next thing i would
try is plain extra virgin olive oil. don't add a single thing to it.
just apply to damp hair and scalp. still do not wash it with shampoo -
you are starting with it clean as of today.
johnson's baby shampoo is supposed to be gentle but i'm not sure what
that means since it's a chemical product. i would stick with things
that i know 100% what's in them - one thing: aloe is in aloe, olive
oil is in olive oil. if your head is still itching with the plain
olive oil, i would go quickly to a dermatologist.
if it doesn't start itching, you can go back to your products, again being very
careful to add one by one with no overlap. if it is one of the products you're
using, you should be able to tell because you are introducing each one
separately.
one more thing - to soothe the itching apply a cold compress (with
cool water or an ice pack) to your scalp.
hth, KC

If you know of a hair show or event, please send details to kcasper AT
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Thanks~
KC

WHAT THE HECK IS WRONG WITH MY SCALP....

I HAVE THE ITCHIEST SCALP IN THE WORLD...

I HAVE NEVER HAD A ITCHY SCALP...

I DONT USE NETHING DIFFERENT THAN B4....

I BEEN HAVING A FLAKY SCALP AND VERY ITCHY...

I HAVE NEVER HAD DANDRUFF EVER....

MY HAIR ONLY FLAKES AT THE TEMPLE...

BUT HERE IS THE CATCHER... I TOLD U ALL THAT I USE THE PROLINE SOFTNER...WHICH I HAVE ALWAYS USED.... I USE SOMETIMES THE IC HERBAL HAIR DRESS WHEN I DONT USE THE SOFTNER...AND WHERE MY HAIR IS THINNING (FROM STRESS) ILL USE SULFUR 8 OR GLOVERS (THAT STINKY STUFF)

NONE OF THE STUFF I USE ALL AT ONCE...BUT DIFFERENT INTERVALS WHEN NEEDED.... ALL COMMON STUFF I HAVE USED THAT I HAVE NEVER HAD A PROBLEM WITH...

OH YES THE CATCHER... THE OTHER DAY I WENT TO USE THE SOFTNER AND IT BURNED UP MY TEMPLES..I FELT LIKE I WAS ON FIRE...

IF THAT WASNT ENUFF..I FELT WELL ITS TIME 4 ME 2 WASH MY HAIR..PERHAPS MY SCALP IS ITCHY IS BECUZ MY HAIR IS DIRTY ...BLAH BLAH BLAH..

I WENT TO WASH MY HAIR WITH SOME GARLIC SHAMPOO (again stuff i have used b4 ...with no issues) I FELT LIKE MALCOLM X IN THE MOVIE WHEN DENZEL'S HEAD WAS ON FIRE FROM THAT PERM AND THERE WAS NO WATER....I THOUGHT I WAS GONNA DIE... MY HEAD WAS BURNING..

NEBODY HAVE A CLUE WHAT THE DEVIL IS WRONG WITH MY HEAD?

A FRIEND OF MINE TOLD ME LAST NIGHT THAT I SHOULD JUST 4GET ABOUT ALL THAT OTHER STUFF THAT OUR GRANDPARENTS PARENTS USED 2 USE 4 OUR HAIR...4 GROWTH ETC ETC...AND OILS LIKE SULFUR 8 ETC... NON OF THAT ON THE SCALP ...

AND JUST SHAMPOO WITH JOHNSON'S BABY SHAMPOO... OR THE ORIGINAL V05

ONLY THING THAT I WANT IS NO CHEMICAL IN MY HAIR... I WANT IT HEALTHY NATURAL ....SOFT

HELP!!! sorry im long winded...but help!! please

I KNOOOW you will love the stuff. The only thing I don't have is the Whipped Shea (Which I'm ordering Tomorrow) and colored Honey Sticks ahahah. As soon as you smell it you wanna eat it. LOL [INLINE] Happy Experimenting :-)
Why do we wear gloves to protect our hands from a chemical that touches our scalp? [INLINE]

I Actually found some at Super Walmart and the Dollar Tree, can u belive the Dollar Tree, LOL. (They be havin some hidden deals [INLINE] .....even though everythings a dollar) AND they are really durable. They come in wide bands and thin bands and I actually found some suade ones. The wide suade ones come in packs of 2 and the colored ones come in packs of 8-10 depending on if some of them have flower appliques on them...but the ones there have plain AND decorated ones in the packs.

The ones I'm wearing in the photos came from the Dollar Tree and the ones I'm gonna wear in 4 weeks (for my update) will be the ones made from Goody brand I got from Super Walmart. They come in ALOT of different colors (8 in a pack) I haven't found any decorated ones by Goody yet and (to my delight) they are reversible I was suprised because until I saw other naturals wear them I never found any and now I have ALOOOT. [INLINE] I won't be sleepin on Dollar Tree anymore. LOL [INLINE]
Why do we wear gloves to protect our hands from a chemical that touches our scalp? [INLINE]

You know I forgot because I always go to Nappturality Swap and Sell Forums to give away my Stuff I have a 2oz Bottle of Qhemet Olive & Honey Hydrating Balm and a Bottle of Heinz Apple Cider Vinegar that I can send you. I don't know much shipping would be or If I can ship a liquid out of the states if I can't I'll just send you the Hydrating Balm but I'd be happy to send these 2 things to you I don't use them because I use Oyin for my Hair. the ACV Is still full and the Hydrating Balm is mostly full I just let my Husband use some before I wanted to send it way (Just in case he could use it.) They are just sitting around I hate spending money and not being able to use stuff. Just send me your address. If you want it or if you want just one item tell me and I'll get rid of the ACV another way :-)-Natasha [INLINE]
Why do we wear gloves to protect our hands from a chemical that touches our scalp? [INLINE]

Natasha,

Your hair looks great. Where do you purchase the ouchless headbands?
~Naturally Moi~ Moi <NaturallyNatasha@...

Congrats to you too Girl. VIVA LA FREEDOM [INLINE]
Relaxers Suuuck [INLINE]

Check website afrohair.com. Look under hairstylists locator.

the miracle ingredient is probably glycerine. it attracts moisture to itself. ingredients are usually listed from the most to least things in a product.
erica thomas <reicya2piecez@...

amen! my mother keeps her hair short with a texturizer
& she loves the stuff, her new growth feels as great
as the already done hair. i use it sometimes now with
my baby locks.

Congrats to you too Girl. VIVA LA FREEDOM [INLINE]
Relaxers Suuuck [INLINE]

Hey thanks so much for the tips everyone! I really appreciate what everyone had
to say. A
couple of the messages came through in my email as "This message is not in a
displayable
format" - I don't know why (If html is the issue, I am able to read html in my
email)..
weird..
Anyway, the comments that I _could_ read helped me so much. I checked on a few
websites for Seborrhea Dermatitis - I don't think that's what I have. Although
I could be
wrong.
As for what else I'm using on my scalp... Um.. Nothing.. I don't know how to
take care of
my hair! I found some coconut oil that I use sometimes.. But I really do
neglect my scalp -
I mostly put things in my hair without thinking about my scalp. I'm so scared
of
"angering" my scalp and I just really want my hair to grow.
I've never heard of using antiseptic mouth wash on my scalp - I may try that
out. As well
as all of the other oils that everyone suggested. Wrong things I was definitely
doing was
1) using regular vinegar - man! I did it twice in two days and my scalp is
ULTRA dry now.
2) doing it way too often - even if it was only twice in two days - I need to
cut back to no
more than once a week.
Also - I definitely had poor washing and conditioning habits - I just starting
parting my
hair when I wash it a couple of weeks ago.
Thanks again for all the advice - and Lina, thanks for the recipe!
I'll definitely welcome any more that anyone has!
Blessings to all,
-Chava

Candace,

My hair is also incredibly thick and sometimes dry. In the winter, be sure to sleep with a humidifier in the room so that the heat in the air doesn't dry out the hair so much. I use mostly QP products and I deep condition quite often. Always use a detangler when combing. These are just a few tips from me.

Miracles and Blessings,

Ashauna
candace biglow <mscandypatterson@...

Hello Everyone, Im needing some help(PLEASE,PLEASE guys help me LOL). I just took my cornrows down(over the weekend) and wanting to wear my Natural Hair for a while. Just to give it a break, from braids. Im wearing a pulled back puff, and its SO DRY!!! I Wash and condition my hair, bought some products from Sally's that help with your "Natural Curl Pattern", But Im sitting here like Help [INLINE] . What products and methods do you guys use for puffs, braid outs, buns, styles in thoses areas? .What do you guys use for moisture thats last ALL day long? Im scared if I dont find anything, I will get the braids right back. Not a PERM!!!, but braids with my natural hair. Thanks for all the help that you guys can give me with....

P.S My hair is SO thick and shoulder length that it takes HOURS just to detangle it [INLINE] !!

Thanks,

Candace [INLINE]

Pro-line Softener is part of a product line including texturizers, and
designed to care for texturizers. You can still use it on your hair without a
texturizer (as far as I know, please check the ingredients first to be sure) but
make sure you don't get confused when looking for the product.
In my research for this product I came across this website. Remember,
the information is as reported by customers and may not have been
investigated by the FDA. Still, very interesting.
http://www.cfsan.fda.gov/~dms/costop99.html
KC

Hello Everyone, Im needing some help(PLEASE,PLEASE guys help me LOL). I just took my cornrows down(over the weekend) and wanting to wear my Natural Hair for a while. Just to give it a break, from braids. Im wearing a pulled back puff, and its SO DRY!!! I Wash and condition my hair, bought some products from Sally's that help with your "Natural Curl Pattern", But Im sitting here like Help [INLINE] . What products and methods do you guys use for puffs, braid outs, buns, styles in thoses areas? .What do you guys use for moisture thats last ALL day long? Im scared if I dont find anything, I will get the braids right back. Not a PERM!!!, but braids with my natural hair. Thanks for all the help that you guys can give me with....

P.S My hair is SO thick and shoulder length that it takes HOURS just to detangle it [INLINE] !!

Thanks,

Candace [INLINE]

I also like the proline softener and had used it when my hair was short and
texturized. Now I am using leave in hair mayonnaise condition by African's
Best and the Miracle worker by Hawaiian Silky. Using both of these products
makes my hair soft and manageable in the morning when I take my braids down.
I guess I'm on the right track because the guy that I am dating can't keep
his hands out of my hair.

amen! my mother keeps her hair short with a texturizer
& she loves the stuff, her new growth feels as great
as the already done hair. i use it sometimes now with
my baby locks.

Hello everyone :)

My educational dvd will go on sale tomorrow for $45.00.

The dvd is featured in the winter issue of Naturally You Magazine as well.

Dvd includes:

Step-by-step instructions on loc grooming on a male model, inwhich the technique is unisex.

step-by-step instructions on a pincurl set that can be done on any length of locs.

Plus a mini video presentation of other current loc color and grooming techniques.

The dvd can be purchased at my website through the link below.

Stay positive,
Thierry Baptiste
R.I.P. Rosa Parks

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i would love 2 know what miracle ingredient is in that stuff... but it makes natural hair that is normally hard and course very soft...and subtle...cuz LORD knows he gave me beautiful stuff that can use that softner
erica thomas <reicya2piecez@...

luvvs-i agree. proline softener was a life saver for
me. when i 1st cut my hair it felt stiff. after using
proline it felt very soft. i also noticed less
breakage.

luvvs-i agree. proline softener was a life saver for
me. when i 1st cut my hair it felt stiff. after using
proline it felt very soft. i also noticed less
breakage.

You need to see a dermatologist. It might be Seborrhea Dermatitis...Do not try to treat yourself....Valerie

IF U DONT MIND I WOULD LOVE 2 SEE UR HAIR... I WOULD LOVE 2 EVERYONES HAIR.... I AM GETTIN A CAMERA 4 XMAS ...SO ILL B PUTTING MINE UP ON MYSPACE.... right now my hair is very short

I am using herbal dressings with all kinds of natural stuff. And I think that I have mentioned this b4 I use also becuz nothing has made my hair feel soft so i use ProLine Softner (black bottle with green writing) But I absolutely have no chemical in my hair for the 1st time...for this long

http://www.myspace.com/luvsembrya under the wrapp... its very very very short

erica thomas <reicya2piecez@...

very true. when we learn to love & accept ourselves we
wont be so concerned with what others might be
thinking.

B"SD
Hi! I'm wondering - has anyone ever had any luck with using vinegar
in their hair to clear up scalp issues (I don't know if it's dry or
oily - it's very flaky (not dandruff though), scaby and itchy). I'm
not in the states and I have a hard time finding clarifying shampoos
and stuff... I'm trying vinegar as an experiment and I'm wondering
what ya'll think! :) If this is a hands down BAD idea for some
reason, please let me know! I'm desperately trying to grow my hair -
it's been the same length, about 4 inches stretched, for years! And
I know now that it must be scalp issues causing all the problems.
Thanks!
-Chava

very true. when we learn to love & accept ourselves we
wont be so concerned with what others might be
thinking.

I have no lye! and lets talk hair and those are my hair bibles - I should probably get another copy of each because they are so worn!

Lina

YAAAY [INLINE] Woo-Hoo [INLINE] You know That an idea. Celebrate every year you're natural....It gives me an excuse to buy my self things [INLINE] . CONGRATS LOL
When we relax why do we wear gloves to protect our hands from a chemical that touches our scalp? [INLINE]

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reading why are black women losing their hair? by
barry fletcher. so far very informative.

Thanks tamara!
emeraldzaneta <emeraldzaneta@...

i went to tobi's website (http://members.fotki.com/tvelicia/) and was
struck at how much we look alike. i emailed the site to one of my
friends who said, "That's how I see you." then i thought how beautiful
her hair is.
good going, tobi!
tamara zaneta

Congratulations--you are on a wonderful journey!
Stacey Copeland <afronole@...

Today is my 4 year Nappiversary!!!!!!!

I think that is a good price - I have bought some before - it is a rare find.

Lina

Today is my 4 year Nappiversary!!!!!!!

hi everyone,
What's your screen name? tamara zaneta
City/State? philadelphia, pennsylvania
Loose, loced, or transitioning? loose
How long has your hair been like it is? about 3 years
How long is your hair? almost shoulder length with a braid out
What are your 3 favorite products? i only use three products. they
are carol's daughter rosemary mint herbal shampoo and carol's
daughter hair milk. when i don't use the hair milk, i use mode de
vie's vanilla shea butter hair conditioner
What are your 3 favorite styles? loose and up
Do you style your hair at home, or go to a salon? i take care of my
own hair
If you go to a salon, which one?
What is/has been your toughest hair struggle, physical or mental? a
few people have issues with natural hair and would prefer that i
conform. i think we each walk the path that is best for each one of
us, so i let them be and focus on authentically being me!
Are you natural for life? Why or why not? i am natural for life. i
live a vegan, holistic, and earth-friendly lifestyle as part of my
path to bring me closer to divine energy.

i went to tobi's website (http://members.fotki.com/tvelicia/) and was
struck at how much we look alike. i emailed the site to one of my
friends who said, "That's how I see you." then i thought how beautiful
her hair is.
good going, tobi!
tamara zaneta

I was wondering how does one know when a trim is necessary for their own hair?
Also do people who lock their hair still need to trim their ends?
Most people in their surveys said they do their own hair, so, do you go to the
salon just to trim it or do it yourself? Please give feedback, I need help with
this. Thx!
Diane
There is to be no crown without first a cross**Lk9:23

--- Your locs are so thick and beautiful!!!!!!! from Maxine

I actually went to my stylist, who highlighted my locs for me. I'm going to see him this weekend--I'll ask him about it.

My locs are highlighted on the ends...I submitted pictures about nine months ago, and added two new pictures today:

www.fotki.com/tvelicia/locs

Tobi
binopatch <binopatch@...

Hi everyone, I was wondering if any of you had any tips on the best way
to do highlights for my dreads. Thanks for you guys help

Hi everyone, I was wondering if any of you had any tips on the best way
to do highlights for my dreads. Thanks for you guys help

you could probably take several locs (dampened with setting lotion or aloe gel)- and braid them, then unravel the braid when dry. Small braided sections would probably give more definition than larger ones. I am not so keen on using heat to create the same look - could dry out your locs. There are these cool things called Crimping rods - sorta look like little plastic waffle irons (LOL) and you just clamp em onto to your wet hair, let dry, then take em off. I am thinking of getting them . That would be more useful, I think.

here's the link - you may be able to find them at your local beauty store if you live in a very trendy urban to old school area - I have yet to find these and many people dont even think I am speaking English when I ask (LOL) I will be going to CHicago for Christmas so I'll see if I can find these.....

http://store.goldenmartbeautysupply.com/anniecrimpers.html

Hope that helps!

Lina