Re: [Naturally_You] 700 Members Strong--Touching My Hair...

2007-07-31 22:33:03

Hi everyone--

I don't mind when my family wants to touch my hair--my "significant other" of sixteen years has locs that down his back, and my son's locs are now inching toward his chin. For some reason, our locs don't all feel the same. My mother's hair is natural, although she presses it; my sister still relaxes her hair--they both seem to like how the locs feel to the touch, but they are not ready to loc right now. My young nieces, about 8 and 10, don't seem very curious about locs. My sister has been relaxing their hair for years now and so far, I haven't heard about hair issues from them.

As for other people, it depends. I have a good friend who is white, and married to a black man from St. Lucia. I have known her for years, since long before I loced my hair. She is a good person, kind and generous, with a good "vibe", and when she asked to touch my locs, I didn't mind. I didn't feel like a "spectacle" with her.

Unfortunately, at work, especially white people who work in a different division than I, touch my hair without asking. Of course I explain that it's very rude to just up and touch someone's hair without their permission. You'd think they wouldn't just randomly touch anyone anyway--we work for the health department and know more than anyone how germs are spread through touch!

It's rare that a black person with relaxed hair will touch my hair or ask to do so. I do seem to remember that, when I had relaxed hair myself, it felt improper somehow to touch someone's locs. But other people with locs will ask and I allow it. It's funny how we seem to be curious about how another person's locs; I guess it's the variation on how our feels, whether natural and loose or loced.

Occasionally, when I visit my son's high school, a young girl may ask to touch them, and I don't mind--maybe they are thinking about going natural. Many girls there have relaxed hair, and they seem fascinated with natural hair. I'm wondering if they have been relaxed for a long time--I was natural until age 18, so natural hair is not really "foreign" to me.

My son tells me that a lot of girls ask to touch his hair at school. Since I work in the STD division of the health department, I always say, "Just make sure your hair is the ONLY THING they touch!" [INLINE]
ny_magazine <kaya.casper@...

The Naturally You! eCommunity is now 700+ members strong. Just want to
send out some napptural love to each and every one of you - welcome to
the family, and thanks for joining us.
I have been thinking about one natural hair question in particular
lately:
How do you react when someone asks the inevitable question: Can I
touch your hair??? ~wait!~ *AND* they come at you with the hand
reaching toward your head?
What do you do? Duck, dodge, laugh, smile, spit fire, explain, allow,
enjoy, run, appreciate? Be honest - does the race, sex, and/or
chemical application status of the person matter?
Let me know!
-KC

Fw: [Naturally_You] Fw: Report from John Hopkins - interestin g

2007-07-31 16:18:53

Sorry for the long message. Whenever you hear about a rumor, it's a good idea to
check it out on http://www.snopes.com/ before distributing it. So other people
may know it's not true in case they don't check out snopes.com.
This is what I found (on http://www.snopes.com/toxins/plastic.htm):
Origins: This "health alert" began appearing in people's inboxes in
February 2002; the "Channel 2" reference indicates it was someone's
summarization of a short morning news health segment aired on KHON TV in Hawaii
on 23 January 2002, which was then forwarded all over the Internet as
"important health information."
One- or two-minute health spots on local news programs are not ideal
sources of medical information, however. While important basic information can
be imparted in such a format, trying to explicate complex medical topics
in a minute or two can easily mislead or confuse viewers, many of whom come
away believing absolutely whatever they've heard (or think they've heard)
because "a doctor on TV said it was true" â in this case an unshakeable
belief that using plastic containers in microwave ovens causes cancer.
That a doctor (or, more accurately, someone bearing the title "Dr.")
appears on TV does not mean he's a leading practitioner in his field; it
generally means only that he has something to say that a news director
considers newsworthy, accurate or not. (We point out here that the "Dr.
Edward Fujimoto" identified in this piece is not a staff physician from
"Castle Hospital" or a medical doctor; he's a PhD serving as director of the
Center for Health Promotion at Castle Medical Center in Kailua, Hawaii.)
What TV news covers is dictated by ratings, not importance, and sensational
claims get better ratings than straightforward, mundane information, even
if the latter is more valuable to the viewing audience.
It's a pretty good assumption that if using plastic containers in
microwaves â as millions of people have been doing for decades â posed a
significant risk of cancer, you'd be hearing about it somewhere other than an
e-mail forward of an anonymous summary of a morning news spot on a Hawaiian
television station.
Is there really something to the central claim of this e-mail, that heating
plastic in microwaves releases a cancer-causing agent into the food? It's
within the realm of possibility, but it must be stressed the FDA does
impose stringent regulations on plastics meant for microwaving. Also, if
there are dioxins lurking in the plastic containers we heat food in and the
process of warming those receptacles looses those nasties into our
ingestibles, we've yet to locate the studies that prove this. However,
because most dioxins are dangerous compounds we want to have as little to do
with as possible, many people are cautious about using anything
associated with them. So, if you're one of the concerned, be sure that when you
cover a dish you intend to microwave with ordinary plastic wrap you do not let
the covering touch the food, because some of the plasticizer in the wrap â
which may contain toxic chemicals, as opposed to does contain toxic chemicals
â could migrate to what you're cooking, especially foods high in fat.
Alternatively, use waxed paper for this purpose. Those who are very, very
cautious about the potential for dioxin contamination might choose to adopt the
central point of the e-mail's advice, which is to decant all items into glass
or ceramic containers before microwaving.
But how real is this concern? According to Dr. George Pauli, a leading Food and
Drug Administration scientist, not very. He acknowledged that some
plasticizers do migrate into foods, particularly those containing a lot of fat,
oil, or sugars. But research has found no ill effects from consumption of
plasticizers in FDA-approved plastic wraps or from freezing or re-using plastic
water bottles. Even so, others remain unconvinced, and those on both sides
of the issue recommend not letting plastic wrap touch food during
microwaving.
Several months after this piece began to circulate, it was merged with a
similar item describing a seventh-grade student's science project: As a
seventh grade student, Claire Nelson learned that
di-ethyl-hexyl-adepate (DEHA), considered a carcinogen, is found in plastic
wrap. She also learned that the FDA had never studied the effect of
microwave cooking on plastic-wrapped food. Claire began to wonder "Can
cancer-causing particles seep into food covered with household plastic wrap
while it is being microwaved?"
Three years later, with encouragement from her high school science teacher,
Claire set out to test what the FDA had not. Although she had an idea for
studying the effect of microwave radiation on plastic-wrapped food, she did not
have the equipment. Eventually, Jon Wilkes at the National Center for
Toxicological Research in Jefferson, Arkansas, agreed to help her. The
research center, which is affiliated with the FDA, let her use its
facilities to perform her experiments, which involved microwaving plastic wrap
in virgin olive oil. Claire tested four different plastic wraps and
"found not just the carcinogens but also xenoestrogen was migrating [into the
oil]...." Xenoestrogens are linked to low sperm counts in men and to breast
cancer in women.
Throughout her junior and senior years, Claire made a couple of trips each week
to the research center, which was 25 miles from her home, to work on her
experiment.
An article in Options reported that "her analysis found that DEHA was
migrating into the oil at between 200 parts and 500 parts per million. The FDA
standard is 0.05 parts per billion." Her summarized results have been published
in science journals. Claire Nelson received the American Chemical Society's top
science prize for students during her junior year and fourth place at the
International Science and Engineering Fair (Fort Worth, Texas) as a senior.
"Carcinogens-At 10,000,000 Times FDA Limits" Options May 2000. Published by
People Against Cancer, 515-972-4444.
To add to this: Saran wrap placed over foods as they are nuked, with the high
heat, actually drips poisonous toxins into the food. Use a paper towel instead.
This gist of this latter addition is true in that a student named Claire Nelson
did perform the experiment described for a school science fair project back in
1997 (she came up with the idea for the project while she was in seventh grade,
but as noted, she didn't actually conduct the experiment until three years
later) by working with an FDA-affiliated laboratory. Like the Fujimoto piece,
however, the claims made in this version tend towards the alarmist: the results
of the experiment described tended to indicate that iethylhexyl adipate (DEHA)
and xenoestrogens could migrate from plastic wraps into microwaved food
(specifically olive oil, the "food" used in the experiment), but only with some
brands of plastic wrap (primarily ones not sold as "microwave-safe") and only
when the plastic wrap was in direct contact with the food being heated;
moreover, no research has yet demonstrated that DEHA poses a significant cancer
risk to humans at the levels noted here (even though they exceed FDA standards)
or that xenoestrogens are a direct cause of breast cancer in women or reduced
sperm counts in men.

Re: 700 Members Strong

2007-07-31 14:09:47

Chemical application status? ROTFLOL!!!!!!!
I don't mind it when my hair is touched. When I first went natural, I
actually asked people to touch it!
However, I am more careful with men, especially those I don't know
very well. I don't to send the wrong message, if you know what I
mean.

Re: Free Forming

2007-07-31 05:49:40

There is an article in the current issue of Naturally You! that goes
into depth about preventing loc breakage. But to simplify, pull your
locs apart gently after washing so they don't form one big loc that
you will have to rip apart later. Apply a light oil like olive oil,
jojoba, or almond while damp.
-KC

URGENT MESSAGE REGARDING ORGANIC PRODUCT STANDARDS

2007-07-30 23:24:57

Excerpt from the Organic Consumers Association's Web site:
"After 35 years of hard work, the U.S. organic community has built up
a multi-billion dollar alternative to industrial agriculture, based
upon strict organic standards and organic community control over
modification to these standards.
Now, large corporations, such as Kraft, Wal-Mart, & Dean Foods--aided
and abetted by the U.S. Department of Agriculture (USDA) and members
of the Organic Trade Association, are moving to lower organic
standards by allowing Bush appointees in the USDA National Organic
Program to approve a broad list of synthetic ingredients and
processing aids that would be allowed in organic production. Even
worse these proposed regulatory changes will reduce future public
discussion and input and take away the National Organic Standards
Board's (NOSB) traditional lead jurisdiction in setting standards.
What this means, in blunt terms. is that USDA bureaucrats and industry
lobbyists, not consumers, will have near total control over what can
go into organic foods and products."
Find out how to join in the fight by going to http://www.
organicconsumers.org/sos.cfm.

TIa @Kitchenwine

2007-07-30 20:44:23

Please let me know how your hair turns out and what the service is
like. I hope it turns out ok.
Peace,
Victoria.

Thank you Everyone.

2007-07-30 11:56:47

Thanks to everyone who answered my cries and gave tips on the cheapest
ways to keep my hair looking fly. I hope everyone has a wonderful
weekend and stay blessed.
Peace,
Victoria

Re: [Naturally_You] 700 Members Strong

2007-07-30 07:18:24

Kaya,

You always come up with the fun questions. I have been ask and I really don't have a real problem if asked but it bugs me when people just reach out and touch, I've been known to slap a hand or two away. www.tnappykinky.blogspot.com
ny_magazine <kaya.casper@...

The Naturally You! eCommunity is now 700+ members strong. Just want to
send out some napptural love to each and every one of you - welcome to
the family, and thanks for joining us.
I have been thinking about one natural hair question in particular
lately:
How do you react when someone asks the inevitable question: Can I
touch your hair??? ~wait!~ *AND* they come at you with the hand
reaching toward your head?
What do you do? Duck, dodge, laugh, smile, spit fire, explain, allow,
enjoy, run, appreciate? Be honest - does the race, sex, and/or
chemical application status of the person matter?
Let me know!
-KC

SO HAPPY BEING NAPPY AND FREE [INLINE]

700 Members Strong

2007-07-30 07:11:59

The Naturally You! eCommunity is now 700+ members strong. Just want to
send out some napptural love to each and every one of you - welcome to
the family, and thanks for joining us.
I have been thinking about one natural hair question in particular
lately:
How do you react when someone asks the inevitable question: Can I
touch your hair??? ~wait!~ *AND* they come at you with the hand
reaching toward your head?
What do you do? Duck, dodge, laugh, smile, spit fire, explain, allow,
enjoy, run, appreciate? Be honest - does the race, sex, and/or
chemical application status of the person matter?
Let me know!
-KC

Re: [Naturally_You] I"m new to the grroup.

2007-07-29 16:47:25

Hi Victoria,

I too am also a college student and although I don't have any kids, I can definitely relate to feeling overwhelmed with an overloaded schedule. I have really little time for myself with full-time classes, internship, a job And campus activities - let alone time to play with my hair. I know that everyone's hair is different as to how long their styles last. What I've been doing is deep conditioning my hair every other week and doing double strand twists afterwards. I know it can take up alot of time (4-5 hours) but I make the time for it considering that I leave it in for two weeks and don't have to do anything else in between (except keep it moisturized). Actually, after the second week, if it still looks good, I'll keep it for another week. So, that's one intense time of twisting for 2-3 weeks. During that time, I gather the twists and ponytail it, or put it in a bun with bangs in the front or have a half ponytail on top and the bottom half out. There's some variations here
with what you can do. But then again that's if your hair has the length to do such styles. In actuallity, the CHEAPEST way to do my hair is if I DO IT! I've been to a salon (Tendrils - NY) and watch exactly what they did - strand for strand and realized that I can do the same thing MYSELF! The owner charges $90 for twists that I do just as well as she does and she tells customers (it's what she told me) to keep them in for 3-4 weeks and come back to her in that time to redo them. I honestly believe that I can grow my hair (and boy! is it ever growing!) just as well with twists in my hair than if it had extensions in it. I also have been considering locking - sister-locs - in fact. But the only thing that's preventing me from doing so is the money to get it started - which I can't do nothing about until I'm working full time in my career until which I can be able to afford it. I truly hope that this was helpful! [INLINE]

Diane

Re: [Naturally_You] in transition

2007-07-29 15:19:37

****PEACE AND BLESSINGS****

HERE IS MY STORY, I GOT MY 1ST PERM WHEN I WAS 12 YEARS OLD, EVER SINCE THEN IT HAS BEEN A BATTLE! NO MATTER HOW MANY TIMES I WENT TO THE BEAUTY SHOP IT NEVER GREW AND WHEN I DID NOT GO TO THE BEAUTY SHOP IT BROKE OFF TOO. GOING NATURAL IS ONE OF THE BEST THINGS THAT I HAVE EVER DONE. NOW MY HAIR IS 100% HEALTHY AND IT GROWS. AT FIRST YOU HAVE TO BE STRONG TO GET THROUGH THE " UGLY STAGE". THE UGLY STAGE IS WHEN YOU STILL HAVE PERMED HAIR WITH LOTS OF NEW GROWTH. SO RIGHT NOW FEELING STRESSED YOU ARE NOT ALONE, BEEN THERE AND DONE THAT. WHEN MY NEW GROWTH WAS ABOUT 2IN, I CUT ALL THE PERMED HAIR OFF. THEN HAD MY DAD EDGE IT UP NICE AND EVERYBODY WAS SUPPORTIVE. AND NATURAL HAIR IS NOTHING NEW IN MY FAMILY. I THANKS GOD MY FAMILY IS REAL EARTHY BECAUSE I HAVE A FRIEND THAT HER FAMILY WAS NOT AT ALL. MY HAIR IS NOW 5IN LONG BUT RIGHT NOW I HAVE IN THE KINKY TWIST BECAUSE I WENT ON VACATION AND DID A LOT OF SWIMMING. ANYWAY I AM SO HAPPY FOR YOU AND STICK THROUGH
AND I HAVE 1 WORD FOR YOU CONDITIONING!

KEEZA
notabladeagrass <notabladeagrass@...

hi
i am new to this, have been relaxing for 15 years. have decided to
grow out my relaxer, started about 4 months ago. any advice in regards
to products and care?
Tnx

Fw: Report from John Hopkins - interesting

2007-07-29 13:24:11

Just thought I'd share - very interesting

Re: looking for natural hair salon in the Boston area

2007-07-29 05:19:09

there's a natural hair salon on Blue Hill ave called Muriel's, they do
a good job, but is kind of pricey. the # is 1-617-282-5306. hope this
helps.
Peace,
Victoria

I"m new to the grroup.

2007-07-28 19:53:48

Hello all,
I'm a college student from Boston, MA in search of the cheapest ways
to maintain my hair. I have had natural hair since 04/02, and love the
Lye-free life, but it is not easy! I have done everything from twists
to braids to press n' curl, Name it, I've tried it! I get bored easily
and don't have plenty of time to do my hair(I also have a 2year old
son who demands attention like its going out of style) I have braids
in my hair now and used to think they were the cheapest route, until i
did the math recently, and found out it really isn't. I don't know
whether i want Locs, being toying with the idea for 2 years now. If
anyone has any suggestions, please let me know.
Thank you,
Victoria.

in transition

2007-07-28 14:23:51

hi
i am new to this, have been relaxing for 15 years. have decided to
grow out my relaxer, started about 4 months ago. any advice in regards
to products and care?
Tnx

Re: female roommate in MD wanted

2007-07-28 05:27:01

The unit is in Laurel, Maryland.

SALE: Natural Hair &amp; Skin Care Products

2007-07-28 01:17:07

Mia Simone's Boutique is having a buy 2 get 1 free sale on selected items
(see the Monthly Club Member page).
Also, some of our other products are on our Snooze You Loose SALE (hair
moisturizers, conditioners, loc jewelry, hair jewelry, body jewelry and
more). Don't snooze or else you'll loose out on great sale items. Visit us
today to pick your your favorite products. Don't forget to check out our new
jewelry added on 9/1/05. http://www.miasb.com
From,
Mia S. Wright
Owner of Mia Simone's Boutique http://www.miasb.com
**************************************
"Holistic Healthy 100% Natural Hair & Body Care
Body & Hair Jewelry made for You!
Visit the Internet Store. http://www.miasb.com
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Re: [Naturally_You] Arlington/Dallas Area Salons

2007-07-27 20:51:41

I don't have any info on the hair salons...but my prayers are with you and the new orleans family...

stay positive and peace will follow...

katina

Re: [Naturally_You] female roommate in MD wanted

2007-07-27 16:12:38

What city are you located in?
oretunde1 <oretunde1@...

Looking for a mature but fun and CLEAN female roommate to share a
beautiful 2 bedroom 2 bathroom condo in the much desired Vistas of
Laurel Lakes. Have your own bathroom and bedroom with lots of closet
space and mirrored closet doors. All appliances (washer, dryer,
dishwasher, refrigerator, microwave etc) are modern and new. This
contemporary designed condo is immaculate with lots of sunshine,
cathedral ceilings and a marble fireplace. The complex is conveniently
located very near Laurel Mall and other shopping complexes and
neighborhood amenities and restaurants. Although metro accessible, the
unit is located nearby route 1, 95 and 295. Lots of unassigned parking
available.
Preferred move-in date is end of October or 1st of November. Please
email omoife@... or call 267 255 8962.

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female roommate in MD wanted

2007-07-27 07:34:58

Looking for a mature but fun and CLEAN female roommate to share a
beautiful 2 bedroom 2 bathroom condo in the much desired Vistas of
Laurel Lakes. Have your own bathroom and bedroom with lots of closet
space and mirrored closet doors. All appliances (washer, dryer,
dishwasher, refrigerator, microwave etc) are modern and new. This
contemporary designed condo is immaculate with lots of sunshine,
cathedral ceilings and a marble fireplace. The complex is conveniently
located very near Laurel Mall and other shopping complexes and
neighborhood amenities and restaurants. Although metro accessible, the
unit is located nearby route 1, 95 and 295. Lots of unassigned parking
available.
Preferred move-in date is end of October or 1st of November. Please
email omoife@... or call 267 255 8962.

Free Forming

2007-07-27 07:24:48

Hello My Fellow Loc Sistah's and Brotha's

My question is if one is Free Forming, does the hair have to be conditioned say with real Aloe (from the plant itself) or some type of conditioning cream so that the hair does not break off (from the scalp), or if the hair actually needs to be conditioned at all on a regular basis? Or is just oiling the scalp sufficient? I like to use Nature's Blessing to oil my scalp, but I just wanted to know basically if anything specific is needed to avoid breakage? ...Thank you in advance as always [INLINE]

RE: [Naturally_You] Twist Out?

2007-07-27 01:36:34

Not really. I'm also in transition to going natural. Just getting started.
Thanks!

Twist Out?

2007-07-26 11:17:52

What is a Twist Out? I just saw a fabulous hairstyle on a blog site
that I want....but I don't know how to describe how to do it to a
hairstylist. Anyone know?

Arlington/Dallas Area Salons

2007-07-26 10:17:19

Greetings All,

I'm currently relocated to the Arlington/Dallas, TX area with my job due to the hurricane. (My hometown is New Orleans, LA). Are there any natural hair care salons in the area? I can't find any of the products (oils, moisturizers, etc.) I used at home (& left them all behind when I evacuated). Any info would be greatly appreciated.

Peace

Senitra

Re: [Naturally_You] Finally have pics...

2007-07-26 03:17:39

Your hair looks great

Finally have pics...

2007-07-25 21:56:25

Hi all...I pray all is well with everyone. I just wanted to share. I
finally took a few pictures. Below is my blog address and I'm not sure

Re: [Naturally_You] Big Hair Day in Dallas for Evacuees!!!!!!!!

2007-07-25 21:24:48

Mosetta,
Hope to see you back in Detroit soon! I haven't heard of a hair gathering in quite some time. I enjoyed your book.
Michelle
Detroit
ssylu@...

help needed

2007-07-25 09:29:57

need more help i got couple resposes from my email. Thank you Y.
Jarrett that was informative. Is their anyone or anybody else would
like to respond to my questions? See Message #2703 twists. I need
education help! Thank you
fcookied

Re: [Naturally_You] Softer Hair

2007-07-25 07:18:06

I'm pleased that you described your hair. We need to be clear what kind of hair we are working with when we achieve results from various products and styling techniques. We span a broad spectrum.
I twisted a friends hair today whose hair is soft-textured; mine is kinky. Once I twisted hers with the same products I use to soften mine (food-grade oils--hemp seed, grape seed, wheat germ, etc) and distilled water, herbs), and her style did not hold. I twist her now using organic aloe gel (edible quality), and it holds better.
Some techniques and products will work on most hair; some on only narrow ranges of hair textures. I don't believe in misleading people. It just wastes time. Thanks for your description.
Michelle
Detroit

New e-mail address

2007-07-24 16:08:10

It's just me, an old member with a new address. :) I didn't want to
miss any of the information and conversation from our Naturally You
community so I'm putting my new e-mail address out here.
KarmaeveK@.... The old address is Karyn.Owsley@.... Keep
keeping me posted and updated on the everything in the natural world.
Many blessings, the new,
KarmaEve

Big Hair Day in Dallas for Evacuees!!!!!!!!

2007-07-24 15:55:21

********************************************************************
Date: Sun, 11 Sep 2005 02:07:50 -0700 (PDT)
From: "Linda L. Jones" <manelock@...
Subject: Hair Day for Katrina Evacuees!
To: manelock@...
Hair Day on Behalf of Katrina Evacuees!
Greetings Nappies and Wannabes!
The venue for our Sept. 18 Hair Day has changed.
We will have a special Hair Day on Sunday at Quality Inn Market
Center to welcome our new neighbors from New Orleans!
QUALITY INN MARKET CENTER
1955 Market Center Blvd.
1PM until 5 PM, Dallas
hotel--214-747-9551, ANHA--214-331-2677
manelock@..., www.nappyhairaffair.com
Please come out in full force to help provide the nurturing that
they need and deserve!
We'll be having our typical, each one-reach one, grass-roots hair
grooming session but instead of having it in a private home it will
be at Quality Inn where many of evacuees are staying. The hotel
management has assisted them in finding permanent jobs, long term
housing and other resettlement services.
Hotel co-owner Marilyn Sutherland, asked me to help make her guests
feel at home by having one of our traditional Hair Days in their
ballroom. Jennifer Cowley who was to host the gathering at her Oak
Cliff home, graciously allowed us to switch the venue to the hotel.
The drill is the samebring your own towel and hair product if you
want to get your hair "did." But this time please donate a towel
and hair product to our brothers and sisters from gumbo land! The
kids need hair supplies too!
The gathering is free and open to women, men and children of all
hair textures. Spread the word. Come ready to give and receive!
Mosetta
Founder, A Nappy Hair Affair, Inc.
Author, "Nappyisms: Affirmations for Nappy-Headed People and
Wannabes!"
"Emancipate yourself from mental slavery.
None but ourselves can free our minds." Bob Marley

looking for natural hair salon in the Boston area

2007-07-24 12:37:02

Hello,
Does anyone know of a natural hair salon or a salon that maintains
locs in the Boston area?
tia

Softer Hair

2007-07-24 01:05:33

Hi,
So I JUST went natural, after transitioning from May04 till May05.
My hair is about 5 inches now, and all summer I wore it in the
natural state. Right now my hair is in kinky twists. I have done
lots of research over the last 5 years about natural hair care, and
I've learned some basic things that may not work on everybody's hair,
but i'd like to provide the information still:
1. I put thick amounts of conditioner on my hair before I shampoo and
comb it through. I comb it through like it's relaxer, trying to get
it on every strand to moisturize my hair and detangle at the same
time. Then, I wash it out. surprisingly, I use Dove Conditioner for
this task, cause it's so thick but not sticky, it's creamy, and Dove
really moisturizes.
Then I take this shampoo I got from the Beauty Supply Store from the
Kemi company... where Kemi Oyl comes from. I use the Kemi-Moyst
shampoo, then get this other shampoo with peppermint scent to
officially get all the dirt out. After, I comb through the Dove
conditioner again, in the shower, put my conditioning cap on and
cleanse myself, wash out the conditioner a LITTLE under just a little
cooler than lukewarm water, and get out the shower. All this takes
me only 1 hr, 30 min if i don't try to get EVERY piece of hair, and
it leaves my hair so soft and clean.
I use Kemi leave in conditioner if i'm doing a shake and go, or I use
parnevu to "shingle" my hair (look on the curve salon sight for that
idea: http://www.curvesalon.com)
My hair is wavy at the "soft spot" area of my crown, medium spiral
curly all over except for the sides next to my ears, which are
tightly coiled spirals. It's very soft and drinks in moisture. I
just wanted to add a description of my hair for some reason, wish i
had a picture right now, but i don't

Please Support Katrina Relief Efforts

2007-07-23 22:01:38

Our thoughts and prayers are with all of those affected.
Donate to the Red Cross:
http://www.redcross.org/donate/donate.html
Donate to Michael Baisden Foundation's "It's A Family Affair" Relief
Fund:
http://happilysingle.com/MBfoundation/index.html
Donate to the BlackAmericaWeb.com Relief Fund
http://www.blackamericaweb.com/relief/
Kaya Casper, Publisher
Naturally You! Magazine
www.NaturallyYouMagazine.com

Re: [Naturally_You] Hello...To Nikki--

2007-07-23 19:15:26

Hi Nikki--

What shampoo and conditioner are you using? We all love to hear about different products that work on our hair.

Tobi
Nikki Lewis <ms_nlewis@...

Personally, I hate Suave hair products on my natural hair. I hate the smell and it makes my hair hard as a rock. I read a lot about the no poo method and I tried it a bit. I don't know. They say the conditioner actually has cleaning agents in it and enough to clean the hair and that the cleaning agents in shampoo are too harsh for the hair and dries it out. Like I said I tried it for a while. Not years or anything...just a few months. Well, I found a shampoo and conditioner that I love on my hair so I use shampoo now and probably will continue to. The particular brand of shampoo I'm using doesn't dry my hair nor is it too harsh for it. So. . . I like it. Actually, with the conditioner my hair feels great and soft and it just looks better.
"linda b." <onefortheL@...

Natural Hair Affair Event Update: Colorado

2007-07-23 11:49:34

Hello Everyone,
I enjoyed meeting those that attended the Sept 2, 2005 Natural Hair Affair
event. It was nice to see new faces and old faces. Many people enjoyed
shopping for jewelry and 100% natural hair and skin care products in addtion
to being entertained by the many talented poets and live music. Many of you
had questions about natural products and using them on your hair and I was
able to answer your questions, give tips and provide you with healthy
nourishing products to meet your hair care needs.
~ Until Next Time ~
I look forward to seeing all of you again at the next event. As I close, I
would like to leave you with this thought..."Be grateful for the little
things you posses for if you don't know how to appreciate the smaller things
in life then how can you appreciate the larger things in life." -- Mia
Simone
Mia Simone's Boutique will be giving a donation to help those that were
impacted by storm Katrina. Please keep all of them in your prayers. Also,
future Natural Hair Affair events will be sent to those on our main mailing
list. If you are not on it and would like to receive future invitations then
you are welcome to go to our web site and click the hair page and you will
see a link called "Natural Hair Affair". Once on this page you will be able
to join our mailing list.
From,
Mia S. Wright
Owner of Mia Simone's Boutique http://www.miasb.com
**************************************
"Holistic Healthy 100% Natural Hair & Body Care
Body & Hair Jewelry made for You!
Visit the Internet Store. http://www.miasb.com
**************************************

Re: Lyn fiber

2007-07-23 01:07:48

Greetings Nicole,
Thank you for the info, does she have a website or contact number you
can email me privatly with the info. Thank you
Myriam
www.NaturalHairVillage.com

Katina Mackey &amp; Nicole Corley-Murray-can you please email me off the group

2007-07-22 23:55:15

Regarding hair interview
Thanks
James Lisbon
AMAG

For the people:

2007-07-22 20:29:07

The last few nights, I said a prayer and, I just donated 10 pairs of
baby boooties to the H-Katrina Victims, as well as a blanket and 3 bags
of clothing and one bag of toiletries!
Take Care everyone!

need feedback from loc peopl

2007-07-22 08:47:24

Just don't make the twist too thin. This will cause
you breakage as your locs grow. Personally, I would
suggest using the rat tail comb method without beewax
in case you decide to take the locs down at a later
date. You won't need to cut them out and you'll have
thicker locs.
Sisterly,
Lona P.

Re: hair care in richmond, va area

2007-07-22 08:08:54

Greetings! Welcome to the site
Check out this salon, they are located in your area
http://www.braid-designer.com/
I hope this helps

Re: [Naturally_You] Lyn fiber

2007-07-22 00:54:24

Peace Sis!

You can purchase Lyn wool by contacting Ms. Alice at Lelahs African Braid Shop in Philadelphia. I use this fiber when doing Corkscrews!

Peace & Blessings,
Nicole Corley-Murray

(267) 242-9422
Natural Hair Stylist / Salon - Natural Hair Styles - Philadelphia, PA - Locks

Lyn fiber

2007-07-21 17:56:13

Does anyone know where I can find Lyn fiber? I want to try a senegalese
twists with it. I've searched the net, but can't find it. Thanks in advance.
Myriam

Re: [Subject: need feedback from loc peopl

2007-07-21 15:39:55

Di,
Yes you can use the twists to loc your hair. When you decide to loc, do not
comb out the twists, instead separate, wash and retwists as usual. Repeat
this until the twists have loced.
Myriam

hair care in richmond, va area

2007-07-21 01:39:09

Greetings,
I am fairly new to the site,just joining within the last week. I am a
college student in the Richmond, VA area that is looking for a natural
hair care specialist to help me with my hair. Whether its styling,
conditioning, or everyday ware, I would like to be able to get my hari
done by a professional. I have been treating my natural hair for the
past 4 years and I would really like for someone to show me something
new. Thanks for the help.
Power to the Peaceful!
KCR

Fw: Urgent-Housing for victims - Shaq willing to help

2007-07-20 19:07:51

......The local news here in Florida announced that Shaq and his wife have
decided to fix up 400 apartment units in Texas for survivors of Hurricane
Bush ("Katrina")...pass on this news to anyone you know that has family or
friends in need.....
Myriam

Fwd: BlackPressUSA News Story - U.S. Gets Pan-African Movie Channel

2007-07-20 14:29:53

TO all!!

we can subscribe and request that our cable companies offer this wonderful option. Check the website below. www.africast.tv to find out how to contact your local cable company.
"editor@..." <editor@...

Subject: BlackPressUSA News Story - U.S. Gets Pan-African Movie Channel
From: "editor@..." <editor@...
Date: Sat, 3 Sep 2005 13:08:29 -0400
To: "moriba10030@..." <moriba10030@...
moriba10030@... (moriba10030@...) sent you this article from BlackPressUSA.com, "Your independent source of news for the African American community."
Personalized message:
of interest.

Re: [Naturally_You] need feedback from loc people...To Diane...

2007-07-20 10:58:16

Hi Diane-

My "aha moment" came during a four-day training. There was one girl whom I hadn't seen in like three years. When I first met her, her locks were about ear-length or so. I admired her hair, but I guess I just wasn't ready, even though I thought about locking my hair constantly. Three years later at the training, her hair was way past her shoulders and dyed a beautiful auburn shade. Each day of the training, she wore her hair is a different style.

I called the stylist who had been braiding my hair about every 18 months or so for seven years, and he put my relaxed hair into two-stranded twists. I had the new growth locked until I was ready to cut the relaxed twists off (about 16 months later).

Anyway, I started my son's locks from braids: I would wash his hair with the braids in, and then start with the locks. At first, I used the technique that my stylist uses, which is to twist the new-growth and tie a tiny bit of thread to hold it in place. However, my son's hair is a bit thicker and coarser than my hair. Now, I palm-roll his hair after washing with loc-gel, clip the locks down, and sit him under a hair dryer until his hair is almost dry. Then I moisturize with a tiny bit of olive oil or sweet almond oil.

The palm-rolling may be a good technique to use while your hair is in the two-strand twists. The April-June 2004 issue of Naturally You Magazine has a how-to article about palm-rolling.

Tobi
"dianejmartin@..." <dianejmartin@...

Hello Naptural Nubians,
I am ACTUALLY considering locing my hair and want to know what was your (anyone) AHA! moment that caused you to "Just Do It". What is really holding me back is MONEY as far as initiating the process with a loctitian. I just cannot afford the expense of going to a loctitian right now. I am a full-time graduate student in my last year and I need to do alot of savings until I can get on my feet with a career job.
Right now my hair is in small two-strand twists that's tied up in a ponytail. This is IDEAL for me because I don't have to worry about doing it every one or two days considering my very hectic schedule.
I just mist my hair daily and keep it pulled back in a ponytail. There is no surprise as far as what my hair is going to look like the next day (bad or good hair day, tomorrow?) You get my drift!
However, I was wondering if I just left in the twists without removing it, would it loc on it's own? If so, is this considered free-form style? Your feedback is appreciated. Thanks in advance!
Di

need feedback from loc people

2007-07-20 05:30:29

Hello Naptural Nubians,
I am ACTUALLY considering locing my hair and want to know what was your (anyone)
AHA! moment that caused you to "Just Do It". What is really holding me back is
MONEY as far as initiating the process with a loctitian. I just cannot afford
the expense of going to a loctitian right now. I am a full-time graduate student
in my last year and I need to do alot of savings until I can get on my feet with
a career job.
Right now my hair is in small two-strand twists that's tied up in a ponytail.
This is IDEAL for me because I don't have to worry about doing it every one or
two days considering my very hectic schedule.
I just mist my hair daily and keep it pulled back in a ponytail. There is no
surprise as far as what my hair is going to look like the next day (bad or good
hair day, tomorrow?) You get my drift!
However, I was wondering if I just left in the twists without removing it, would
it loc on it's own? If so, is this considered free-form style? Your feedback is
appreciated. Thanks in advance!
Di

Re: [Naturally_You] hair care routine I just have to share!

2007-07-19 22:55:57

Your wonderful way with words almost makes me want to run home and condition right now!
savvy sophist <savvysophist@...

Peace Ladies,

Tuesday night is my Beauty Night, but almost didn't happen because of a sinus infection. But I haven't had a beauty night since moving into my new apartment, so I just had to do something - my nails were a mess. [INLINE] I decided to start adding my hair to my usual mani/pedi/facial routine. (Just cuz it's short doesn't mean it doesn't need attention) :)

I deicded to add conditioner and hot oil (yes, I mixed them) to my hair, do my facial, mani and pedi, and then once everyting was dry or rinsed off, I would wash out my hair.

OHMIGOSH!!!!! The end result was the most fantastic, soft, shiny hair, I've ever had!!! My hair was so soft before I rinsed the products out that I was afraid my hair was going to just fall out into my hand!!! [INLINE] (HONESTLY - it was softer than it used to be after a relaxer!) And still so soft after the product was rinsed out that I just couldn't stop playing in it! :) I was like a kid with a new toy!

In case you're looking for a great deep conditioner, try this:

1) wet your hair thoroughly

2) add your favorite hot oil - don't rinse out before step #3 (mine is Treseme - I love botanicals)

3) add your favorite deep conditioner (I used Lustersilk Mango Shea Butter cholesterol treatment)

4) wrap your hair to maintain moisture (some women use a turban, I use Saran wrap [INLINE] )

5) keep the hair covered for the length of time you usually deep condition ( I sat for 1/2 an hour)

6) rinse the products from your hair completely

7) say hello to fabulous hair!!!

I'm telling you ladies, I could have started sining my hair was so beautiful!!! Even today, it's still soft and easy to manage! Try it!!! Next time I do this, I'm going to take pictures and post in the email!

Peace and Be Blessed!!

Savvy

Re: [Naturally_You] Inspiration

2007-07-19 20:43:57

Awesome!
savvy sophist <savvysophist@...

I just wanted to share this little story...

[INLINE]

This woman is 60!!!! How amazing I felt being able to inspire an elder to make positive moves for herself - just based on the way she perceived me with natural hair. I see her less often since we don't work in the same unit anymore, but everytime I do she touches her hair and smiles when she says, "I love it, girl! I love my hair."

Savvy

Fw: Urgent-Housing for victims - great people willing to help

2007-07-19 09:42:48

Please forward so others are aware that people are willing to help the
victims by opening up their homes for shelters! Even if it helps one
family, one is better than nothing, but we're praying more will get the help
they need.
-Charnise

Inspiration

2007-07-19 09:04:50

I just wanted to share this little story...

I cut my hair very short last year, and then again in April of this year. Last year I met and became friends with an older woman at work who is every bit of 60. Her ideas about herself and her hair were seriously self destructive. She used to make comments about my hair, and she would talk about how she'd never go around "nappy headed" unless she had "good hair" - she preferred to wear wigs and add extentions to her hair. I never said anything to her about going natural, but I wear my hair proudly.

A few weeks ago I saw her, and lo and behold, she had cut her hair to the length of mine when I initially cut it!!! I could not believe it!!! Was this the same woman who before made snide comments about me when she didn't know I was listening? Yes, and she told me that I inspired her to go natural because I looked so good with my hair, and she wanted to be like me. [INLINE]

This woman is 60!!!! How amazing I felt being able to inspire an elder to make positive moves for herself - just based on the way she perceived me with natural hair. I see her less often since we don't work in the same unit anymore, but everytime I do she touches her hair and smiles when she says, "I love it, girl! I love my hair."

Savvy

hair care routine I just have to share!

2007-07-18 19:24:49

Peace Ladies,

Tuesday night is my Beauty Night, but almost didn't happen because of a sinus infection. But I haven't had a beauty night since moving into my new apartment, so I just had to do something - my nails were a mess. [INLINE] I decided to start adding my hair to my usual mani/pedi/facial routine. (Just cuz it's short doesn't mean it doesn't need attention) :)

I deicded to add conditioner and hot oil (yes, I mixed them) to my hair, do my facial, mani and pedi, and then once everyting was dry or rinsed off, I would wash out my hair.

OHMIGOSH!!!!! The end result was the most fantastic, soft, shiny hair, I've ever had!!! My hair was so soft before I rinsed the products out that I was afraid my hair was going to just fall out into my hand!!! [INLINE] (HONESTLY - it was softer than it used to be after a relaxer!) And still so soft after the product was rinsed out that I just couldn't stop playing in it! :) I was like a kid with a new toy!

In case you're looking for a great deep conditioner, try this:

1) wet your hair thoroughly

2) add your favorite hot oil - don't rinse out before step #3 (mine is Treseme - I love botanicals)

3) add your favorite deep conditioner (I used Lustersilk Mango Shea Butter cholesterol treatment)

4) wrap your hair to maintain moisture (some women use a turban, I use Saran wrap [INLINE] )

5) keep the hair covered for the length of time you usually deep condition ( I sat for 1/2 an hour)

6) rinse the products from your hair completely

7) say hello to fabulous hair!!!

I'm telling you ladies, I could have started sining my hair was so beautiful!!! Even today, it's still soft and easy to manage! Try it!!! Next time I do this, I'm going to take pictures and post in the email!

Peace and Be Blessed!!

Savvy

locs and chlorine????

2007-07-18 18:58:29

I am taking swimming lessons soon and was wondering how to go about
protecting my 3 year old locs. Any sugestions would be greatly
appreciated.

Re: [Naturally_You] Off Topic: REMEMBER THE VICTIMS OF HURRICANE KATRINA

2007-07-18 09:15:08

Hello Latasha & Everyone,

Here at my job are trying to find ways to help. The american Red Cross only want money. We want to make sure that people get the things they need. My co-worker have been calling around to get other companies to participate. Do any of you have any suggestions?
latasha_willis <latasha_willis@...

I am still stunned by the level of destruction and disorder as a
result of Hurricane Katrina.
Being in Jackson, Mississippi, I assumed that the city would just be
there to assist evacuees and ride out thunderstorms and the
occasional tornado. None of us expected the hurricane to reach that
far inland. On Monday, our house spent over nine hours without
power, and I have other relatives who are still in the dark as of
tonight. When I went outside to pick up broken tree branches
Tuesday, I notice a house down the street that now has a tree on top
of it. People are scuffling each day searching for gasoline, ice,
bottled water, food and generators, and yet they have to turn around
and report price gougers to the attorney general's office. My older
sister spent five hours in line at a Wal-Mart gas station trying to
fill up her tank. Volunteers are begging each day on television for
people to donate food, water and blankets to evacuees at the
coliseum. We've even had a few looters who broke into a few stores
and stole liquor, snacks, sunglasses and electronics. One person
even got shot in a fight over a bag of ice.
Of course, things were much worse to the south of us. However, even
with all that, our struggles are just beginning. Gas prices will
continue to skyrocket, revenue will be lost due to businesses being
wiped out, and many victims are either homeless and broke or dead and
unidentified.
Prayers are needed now more than ever. And not just prayers, but
donations! I'm not wealthy, but I gave what I could to the American
Red Cross. Please join me in helping the victims:
http://www.redcross.org/
Other good sources:
http://www.fema.gov/
http://www.firstgov.gov/
http://www.salvationarmyusa.org/
Thanks!

JazzMe Productions, Inc

Jessica Nicholson

jazzme77@...

708-502-5944

Re: [Naturally_You] just wondering - aussie products

2007-07-18 02:24:45

Hello Everyone,

I I recently got back from Miami and I didn't want to spend a lot of money or for that matter take my good conditioner with me on vaction. I saw the Aussie conditioner on clearance and bought it for two dollars. Aussie conditioner and to my surprise worked well. I was shocked because it detangled my hair and actually made it soft. Will I buy it again? Yes.
"dianejmartin@..." <dianejmartin@...

Hi Everyone,
I was wondering if anyone has ever tried Aussie hair products and if so, was it worthwhile? I don't know if there is such a thing as certain products made for certain type of women. For example most products work differently on all women, but, can they be just as good for black women as they are for caucasians? I see commercials for products that are geared towards specific cultures.

Off Topic: REMEMBER THE VICTIMS OF HURRICANE KATRINA

2007-07-18 01:30:55

I am still stunned by the level of destruction and disorder as a
result of Hurricane Katrina.
Being in Jackson, Mississippi, I assumed that the city would just be
there to assist evacuees and ride out thunderstorms and the
occasional tornado. None of us expected the hurricane to reach that
far inland. On Monday, our house spent over nine hours without
power, and I have other relatives who are still in the dark as of
tonight. When I went outside to pick up broken tree branches
Tuesday, I notice a house down the street that now has a tree on top
of it. People are scuffling each day searching for gasoline, ice,
bottled water, food and generators, and yet they have to turn around
and report price gougers to the attorney general's office. My older
sister spent five hours in line at a Wal-Mart gas station trying to
fill up her tank. Volunteers are begging each day on television for
people to donate food, water and blankets to evacuees at the
coliseum. We've even had a few looters who broke into a few stores
and stole liquor, snacks, sunglasses and electronics. One person
even got shot in a fight over a bag of ice.
Of course, things were much worse to the south of us. However, even
with all that, our struggles are just beginning. Gas prices will
continue to skyrocket, revenue will be lost due to businesses being
wiped out, and many victims are either homeless and broke or dead and
unidentified.
Prayers are needed now more than ever. And not just prayers, but
donations! I'm not wealthy, but I gave what I could to the American
Red Cross. Please join me in helping the victims:
http://www.redcross.org/
Other good sources:
http://www.fema.gov/
http://www.firstgov.gov/
http://www.salvationarmyusa.org/
Thanks!

just wondering - aussie products

2007-07-17 15:59:11

Hi Everyone,
I was wondering if anyone has ever tried Aussie hair products and if so, was it
worthwhile? I don't know if there is such a thing as certain products made for
certain type of women. For example most products work differently on all women,
but, can they be just as good for black women as they are for caucasians? I see
commercials for products that are geared towards specific cultures.

Re: [Naturally_You] Leave-in Conditioners

2007-07-17 15:19:05

any alcohol is not really good. I think that is also called Alcohol SD 40 which is what is used in very strong astringents and toners ( and some hair gels). This will strip the hair and cause dryness and breakage. I have seen an ingredient, Cetearyl Alcohol that shows up later in most ingredient lists, which may not have as much of an impact. If this is the first ingredient, I would not use it at all. See if you can get your money back.

Lina Sims

Leave-in Conditioners

2007-07-17 09:34:58

I just bought a leave in conditioner called Bio Complex. The 1st ingredient is Alcohol 40 ASD. Does anyone know what type of alcohol this is? After I bought it I started getting concerned. I bought it at a hair salon so I just assumed it was ok. Any suggestions on a good leave-in. My hair looks a like Nadia, it's very thick and full. I don't know if that's 4a or 4b. Thanks in advance for any advice you can give me.

Re: [Naturally_You] Vacation Hair and chlorine

2007-07-17 00:40:01

Laqueta, what conditioner did you use? I'm currently using Oyin's greg's juice as a leave-in, it's a spray. I'd like to try out another type of leave-in. I'm planning on going in the pool on my next vacation. The last time i was in a pool only some of my hair got wet. So I rinsed my hair in the shower and applied greg's juice and shea butter and retwisted the twists that were looking shabby. Should I shampoo the hair that got wet to make sure the chlorine is out? Would you wear a cap?

Laqueta Dublin <laquetad01@...

Thank you everyone. I had a wonderful time in Cancun and my hair was fine. I decided not to get braids because I didn't feel the expense was worth it for just six days. I wore my hair in a twist out for the first two days. Before going to the beach I just rubbed in a little conditioner. The first day I didn't get my head completely wet, so I gave it a light rinse and it air dried. My twist out was still looking good the second day so I left it alone and went swimming again. It got completley wet so I washed it that afternoon and did small two strand twists. That's how I wore it for the rest of the vacation I just applied a little leave in conditioner to it everyday and rinsed it when it got wet. The roots were puffy but it was nothing that I could not hide with a headband.

Thank you for all of your great advice. It turned out to be easier than I thought. If anyone is going to Cancun and needs a recommendation on a resort, let me know.

Thanks again.

Laqueta
Katina Mackey <moon_goddezz@...

I don't have any suggestions but I can tell you about my own experiences...
about 2 years ago I went to Jamaica...I too did not want to wear my afro puff and thought it would be better if I got cornrows...so my mother straightened my hair to allow for easier braiding and my braids looked ultra nice...well, I'm a water baby and couldn't keep myself out of the pool or ocean...my natural hair began to curl out of the braids and let to an ungodly-mess...by the time I left I putting my cornrows in a bun at the nape of neck to hide the disaster...my point: don't do it if you plan to get in the water and swim....

recently I took a trip to Miami (which I found I can do without)...n-e-way, I wore my own afro puff and it was just what the doctor ordered...when I swam or went to the beach I just tied a colorful scarf around my head to match my bikini and off I went...my hair gets more curly when wet and kind of floppy so the scarf held it together...I conditioned as usual (no poo method) and went on my way at night because I prefer to let my hair air dry....

so if you won't be splashing around the water---get braids...if not, show Mexico the natural woman...

good luck with your decision...and keep us posted

Thanks to Rita

2007-07-16 14:37:41

The clarifying shampoo worked like a dream after just 2 shampoos thanks
again.

9/2/05 - Next Natural Hair Affair Event

2007-07-16 11:54:18

Hello Everyone!
I hope your summer is going well. We will be meeting at the Gemini Tea
Emporium at 7:00 p.m. on Friday Sept 2, 2005 for our next Natural Hair
Affair Event. This event will be a little different than the past events
because you will all have the opportunity to meet many other people since we
will also be entertained by the Poetry event and spoken word program that
will take place called "The Speak Out". You will be able to pay at the door
to attend and the cost is $5. Gemini Tea Emporium has many different types
of refreshments for you to choose from and Mia Simone's Boutique will have a
table at this event, so if you want to stop by and see some of our hair and
skin products AND jewelry then stop buy our table. Mia Simone's Boutique
will be accepting cash and personal checks at this event.
We hope you can attend our next Natural Hair Affair event and relax and
enjoy "The Speak Out" event as well.
Directions: Located at 2860 Welton Street Denver, Colorado. For directions
use http://www.mapquest.com or call the Gemini Tea Emporium at: 303-292-9405
From,
Mia S. Wright
Owner of Mia Simone's Boutique http://www.miasb.com
**************************************
"Holistic Healthy 100% Natural Hair & Body Care
Body & Hair Jewelry made for You!
Visit the Internet Store. http://www.miasb.com
**************************************

Re: [Naturally_You] New Member Survey

2007-07-16 09:11:59

TLOVE,

I am Kimberly in Maryland. How can I purchase your product. I too am in the beginning stages of transitioning. I am experiencing a lot of breakage though. I am always looking for natural products for my oily skin. Thanks in advance for any info/advice you can offer.

Peace

Re: Hair Talk...Phea

2007-07-16 02:33:06

Please be encouraged to stay you. Some christians say they are
christians without really knowing what being a christian is. The
word christian means christ like. I don't see any where in the word
of God where Christ is saying that it is a sin to wear locs.
However, the word does say that we are not to judge others.
Otherwise, we will be judged ourselves. Anyone that says that locs
are a sin is taking christianity and, the word of God out of
context.

Re: [Naturally_You] Xpost - Kaya Casper's Album Updates

2007-07-15 15:01:23

your hair really looks good it looks like it grew a
lot.

Peace Love Live Life
SR

RE: [Naturally_You] Digest Number 387

2007-07-15 11:32:57

-what brand of dye is it - you may can tone it down by using a clarifying shampoo.

Xpost - Kaya Casper's Album Updates

2007-07-15 05:49:56

Finally, new hair pics! I got them tightened and braid set about 2 weeks ago by Exavia Love, www.Exavias.com .

4 years and counting...Enjoy!

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www.NaturallyYouMagazine.com
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Re: [Naturally_You] Boys with Locs...Thanks Karyn

2007-07-15 02:07:41

Thank you Karyn, for your kind words.
Hi Everbody--

My son is a bit older (turning 17 on Christmas Day), his hair has been loced since Novmber 2004. His locs are now about ear-length.

My son attends a primarily African-American and Hispanic high school, and for some reason I thought there wouldn't be an aversion to natural hair. I went to a mostly white high school and wasn't allowed to straighten my hair in any way. Although the white girls didn't say much about my hair (they actually seemed to like it; "it was so full and different"), the black girls gave me a lot of grief over it. I felt that it was because of their own upbringing under the standards of European beauty.

Anyway, I also thought that as a male, my son wouldn't have problems with comments about his hair. However, when I first started his locs, some students, especially girls, made remarks about his hair. He would ask them if they thought wearing "all that fake hair" looked better.

Lately, during summer school and now that school has started for the fall, the girls are all over him--telling him that he looks cool, looks jamaican, etc. (Maybe it has something to do with his 30+ collection of Bob Marley and "black culture" T-shirts he wears...)

I think I would have a more difficult time instilling self-esteem for a female child due to the society we live in. I admire all of you who have young girls and are working hard to make sure they know their own special beauty. As I've mentioned before, somehow my sister doesn't get the message and both my nieces (ages 9 and 7) have relaxers and have had them for at least two years.

Tobi

savvy sophist <savvysophist@...

Peace and Blessings,

I love your response, Karyn. I have often wondered if boys who sport natural looks are given the same pressure as girls. At what age did you begin locking your children's hair - or was it a decision that they made?

I saw a picture of a little baby boy with locs a few years ago, and since then I've always thought that when I have children, I want my little boy to have locs. When I shared that sentiment with friends I was met with a host of reasons why it just wouldn't be a good idea to loc a child's hair (all of those reasons came from women who could also produce a million reasons for not going natural themselves.) While I don't yet have children, I would really appreciate hearing what you have to say.

Peace and Be Blessed,

Savvy

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2007-07-14 12:32:49

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Re: [Naturally_You] Need help

2007-07-14 10:17:13

usually when you dye your hair it always comes out
bright. But within a few weeks you'll see the color
tone down. is the color just awful? or did it come out
great but you just wanted the whole head one shade?

Re: [Naturally_You] Hello--No Poo

2007-07-14 04:46:05

My understanding is that conditioner has a little of the same cleaning agents as shampoo, not as much, so your hair won't be as dry and will be very soft.
vera thomas <verajcool@...

This is beautifullyhuman and last night i was on the
Internet and for some reason i got connected to this
other natural hair web. Anyways I've noticed that
every time i log on to my natural you group i keep
seeing the words:No Poo,or i don't do the No Poo. so
I'm thinking to myself "What in the world is No Poo?"
so on this site this female gives you a list of hair
terms and No Poo means no shampoo.(duh!)so what i want
to know is why are alot of people with natural hair
not using shampoo? From my knowledge shampoo is
suppose to clean the hair. just using conditioner on
the hair is like washing your hands with no soap!I'm
just a little confused on that.Another question is how
is conditioner suppose to clean your hair when it's
lathering up or anything? I just thought that
conditioner was made to make the hair soft and keep
the hair somewhat healthy.Last but not least i also
noticed that alot of people with natural hairstyles
settle for Suave products than any other product.
What's the difference or should i say what's so
special about Suave products on natural hair than the
other products?

Need help

2007-07-13 19:23:13

Does anyone know how to tone down or tone down a temp. dye my daughter
talk me in to using this natural berry dye which really is noce but my
gray hair turned bright red, the rest of my hair is a beautiful shade
of redish brown, if anyone knows of anything I would really be thankful.

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Re: [Naturally_You] Boys with Locs...

2007-07-13 15:27:46

Hi Everbody--

My son is a bit older (turning 17 on Christmas Day), his hair has been loced since Novmber 2004. His locs are now about ear-length.

My son attends a primarily African-American and Hispanic high school, and for some reason I thought there wouldn't be an aversion to natural hair. I went to a mostly white high school and wasn't allowed to straighten my hair in any way. Although the white girls didn't say much about my hair (they actually seemed to like it; "it was so full and different"), the black girls gave me a lot of grief over it. I felt that it was because of their own upbringing under the standards of European beauty.

Anyway, I also thought that as a male, my son wouldn't have problems with comments about his hair. However, when I first started his locs, some students, especially girls, made remarks about his hair. He would ask them if they thought wearing "all that fake hair" looked better.

Lately, during summer school and now that school has started for the fall, the girls are all over him--telling him that he looks cool, looks jamaican, etc. (Maybe it has something to do with his 30+ collection of Bob Marley and "black culture" T-shirts he wears...)

I think I would have a more difficult time instilling self-esteem for a female child due to the society we live in. I admire all of you who have young girls and are working hard to make sure they know their own special beauty. As I've mentioned before, somehow my sister doesn't get the message and both my nieces (ages 9 and 7) have relaxers and have had them for at least two years.

Tobi

savvy sophist <savvysophist@...

Peace and Blessings,

I love your response, Karyn. I have often wondered if boys who sport natural looks are given the same pressure as girls. At what age did you begin locking your children's hair - or was it a decision that they made?

I saw a picture of a little baby boy with locs a few years ago, and since then I've always thought that when I have children, I want my little boy to have locs. When I shared that sentiment with friends I was met with a host of reasons why it just wouldn't be a good idea to loc a child's hair (all of those reasons came from women who could also produce a million reasons for not going natural themselves.) While I don't yet have children, I would really appreciate hearing what you have to say.

Peace and Be Blessed,

Savvy

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Re: [Naturally_You] Kindergarten Hair drama

2007-07-12 21:16:29

Don't think this is just happening to the girls. I am the mother of 2 handsome boys, ages 13yrs. who has been locked for 4-5 yrs and my youngest son who is 6 yrs. old. Now my oldest son is accepted by any and everybody who meets him. His personality is awesome and he's comfortable with his look. A lot of times, his friends, classmates, even relatives always compliment him on his hair and they think its cool that he walks to his own beat so to speak. Last year some of his classmates gave him the nickname Booker T, the wrestler from WWE and he took it in stride knowing they didn't mean any harm. Plus Booker T is a cool wrestler and my son loves how Booker's locs have grown.

Now my youngest went through a phase because he was tired of people mistaking him for a girl. I just taught him to be polite when people referred to him as a "she" and kindly say, "thank you for thinking I'm cute, (pretty, etc) but I'm a handsome boy." Usually everyone says sorry a thousand times, give him a hug or some change and they even thank him for correcting them.

To make sure my children are happy with their hair decision, I always make sure they want to keep the look they have and not go for a hair cut. Both of my boys ALWAYS tell me, "Mom, if I cut my hair, I just won't be me." I love that response. When people question me or my mother, "when y'all gonna get them boys' hair cut?" My mother's responses are, (1) "when did Jesus cut his hair?" or (2) "when you show me a photo of Jesus with a fade, I'll cut my grandchildren's hair" That usually shuts those questioning us up. [INLINE]

It's such a shame that we as parents or just us ourselves have to explain why we wear our hair the way we do and we're getting questioned on the choices we made for ourselves. I usually get compliments or women telling me they wish they could wear their hair in its natural state. Every blue moon I get someone who tells me "I wouldn't be comfortable wearing my hair like that." I usually tell them, "I've worn my hair like that (then point back at their head, like they pointed at mine) in the past, that became old to me and I wanted something different. I found it, loved it and will never go back to hair slavery again." Then I give this wonderful smile and leave it at that. No problems. Just teach your children to love the skin (& hair) they're in and they will be much better off than those who are as fake as they're weaves and straight hair.

Naturally yours,

Karyn

Re: [Naturally_You] Hair Talk - Phea

2007-07-12 12:24:02

Hi Phea,
I'm sure I would've handled the situation just the same. I too have had weird encounters when I decided to go natural. At work, I explained this is real black people hair as God created it, although the textures vary. I received flack from people of color and compliments from caucasions. In the hood, I expressed how I love and accept myself as God created me!! Then decided to tell them that this was a movement and I had associates that support the all natural being. Their comments made me take a firm stand on staying natural. Proving that I accept the beauty, inside and out, as God created me. I also advised them that I was glad to be in a state that what they thought just didn't matter, because the compliments and my acceptance of myself is greater!!! These people are associates for life and thank God we don't all think alike. We must remain teachable, as well as, be willing to educate.
Peace and blessings,
Crystal in Philly

"Phea" <pheak1@...

Children and Hair...Nay Nay

2007-07-12 09:39:42

Sounds good Myriam, I wish I was in the Florida area to visit your salon

Bernadette

Kindergarten Hair drama

2007-07-12 06:45:54

This morning my 5 year old daughter starting crying. "Mommy I don't
want to wear my hair like this (two-strand twist out with a
headband) to school. They teased me and don't want to be my friend"
My heart hurt for her. So again between my husband, son (8) and
myself we built her back up again. I went so far as to role play
with her and my son. I said "If someone does not like your
backpack...shoes...shirt..etc what will you say. My son so boldly
said, "So what!" It made her feel better and I actually saw a smile
between the tears.
It would have been so easy to brush out her little spirals and curls
and put some ponytails in; but I realized that it would negate
everything that I have been teaching her about accepting and loving
yourself and it would have sent the message conform to what others
like.
I told her that if those meanies don't want to be your friend
because of your hair...you should not want them as friends anyway.
Ok, this is kindergarten we are talking about. Imagine when she
gets to middle school and jr. high what kinda of drama will occur.
The girls now are truly "a new breed". They can be down right cruel.
Yes, starting now it will get easier for her. But this is hard for
my baby not being accepted. Help.

Re: [Naturally_You] Hair Talk...Phea

2007-07-11 18:06:36

Hi Phea--

Wear your beautiful natural hair with pride and continue to ignore that ignorant woman. I'm sure she is trying to get a reaction out of you by saying derogatory comments about "nappy hair".

Tobi
Phea <pheak1@...

Ok tell me how you would handle this situation.
I have encounted the same lady at church 4 times in the past 2 weeks.
First, she had not seen me with my TWA and she said, "What
happened!" [I had shoulder length relaxed hair] I told her that I
decided to wear my hair natural.
Second, in the bathroom. She said "Oh, Girl I need a relaxer...my
hair is nappy!" Trying to initate a conversation. I just
said "um.hum" and left. Thirdly, she was speaking loudly to another
person (I'm in the room) saying "If I go another day with my hair
this nappy I am going to scream" Then on Sunday, we are all in one
room and my "hair inspiration" walked in [another minister who is
wearing his hair in locs] We immediately started talking about our
hair. We have not talked in several weeks. He said wow your hair
is really growing and I said yeah, I am excited about it..I am going
to let it grow out some more before I loc it..he then preceded to
tell me about a lady in Oakcliff that retwisted it for him very
reasonably...She then interrupted.."I like HIS hair...see I like
that." Neither of us said anything...just continued our
conversation. I made a point with much enthusiam to continue to
tell him about my hair journey and how I am liking my hair at this
stage (it is about 3-4 inches long) She just sat there looking at me.
I really wanted to tell her a thing or two about how what we say or
imply to one another breeds what commercialism say is beautiful and
the lack of knowledge some have about chemicals..I just wanted to go
all the way to the left on her but I held my peace because I am
going to justify my hair decision nor let her see how her opinion or
actions affect me.

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RE: [Naturally_You] Hair Talk

2007-07-11 17:47:50

You handled the situation the way a Christian should have. God made your hair especially for you and He doesn't make mistakes. Whose opinion is better than His?

Peace & love

Be a blessing to someone and you will be blessed

[INLINE] Tamara Gaskins Prosper

Re: [Naturally_You] Let Little Girls be Little Girls

2007-07-11 09:08:44

I just had this conversation at work, mainly in reference to dress, but I brought up the subject of hair, being natural of course. I am blessed with two boys and I am amazed at how people see the texture of my natural and comment that my boys have "good hair too". I know that if I had a girl that she definitley would not have a perm. She would rock braids, twists whatever even a fro if it were short. I grew up wearing ribbons ( oh I'm 35 but mom is Carribean!!), so I may add a ribbon or two! Its a shame that some little girls wear heels higher than I do!
I agree. Let little girls be little girls. They already grow up fast enough without the extra embellishment of grown up hair styles. I believe the influence of our society is strong, but parents need to take back control.
Nay Nay

Hair Talk

2007-07-11 09:07:57

Ok tell me how you would handle this situation.
I have encounted the same lady at church 4 times in the past 2 weeks.
First, she had not seen me with my TWA and she said, "What
happened!" [I had shoulder length relaxed hair] I told her that I
decided to wear my hair natural.
Second, in the bathroom. She said "Oh, Girl I need a relaxer...my
hair is nappy!" Trying to initate a conversation. I just
said "um.hum" and left. Thirdly, she was speaking loudly to another
person (I'm in the room) saying "If I go another day with my hair
this nappy I am going to scream" Then on Sunday, we are all in one
room and my "hair inspiration" walked in [another minister who is
wearing his hair in locs] We immediately started talking about our
hair. We have not talked in several weeks. He said wow your hair
is really growing and I said yeah, I am excited about it..I am going
to let it grow out some more before I loc it..he then preceded to
tell me about a lady in Oakcliff that retwisted it for him very
reasonably...She then interrupted.."I like HIS hair...see I like
that." Neither of us said anything...just continued our
conversation. I made a point with much enthusiam to continue to
tell him about my hair journey and how I am liking my hair at this
stage (it is about 3-4 inches long) She just sat there looking at me.
I really wanted to tell her a thing or two about how what we say or
imply to one another breeds what commercialism say is beautiful and
the lack of knowledge some have about chemicals..I just wanted to go
all the way to the left on her but I held my peace because I am
going to justify my hair decision nor let her see how her opinion or
actions affect me.

New Member - M. Foster

2007-07-10 21:39:53

I would like it to be Wildly Beautiful...but I think I goofed and cannot change it.

Cincinnati, Ohio.

Transitioning.

About 8 going on 9 months.

My hair was to almost the middle of my back when I started. So I am taking the long way to grow it out. Right now it is a huge afro when I wear it loose. So about 5 to 6 inches. Right now its is in micros.

I don't have any products. I need some suggestions for fine hair, wavy(crinkly) hair.

Braids, braids, braids. I am trying to find something else to do with it. But it is hard with the two textures right now. Suggestions?

Salon. I am in Cinti, so I go to African hair braiders.

Physical. I am 29 years old, and I have always been a womanist/black nationalist type female. I am just growing more and more comfortable as I get older with who I born as, spiritually, personality wise as well as looks.

I believe that I am natural for life. My hair is so fine in texture that it was no need for me to get a perm in the first place. I just wanted one so bad, agaisnt my beautician mother wishes. I look back on pics now like....damn..look at all that hair!

Re: Children and Hair...Nay Nay

2007-07-10 18:49:45

NayNay,
Beautifully said....Self-Love is what my sister and I are trying to teach
our local black community through our natural hair salon, our main goal is
to help our people (especially children) learn to Embrace, Love, and
Celebrate their beautiful black selves. We've been here four years and I'm
happy to make a difference in the lives of our people. The best part of my
day is seeing a client smile at the sight o